My boys were 14 months and not yet 3 when we went to the Hoop Dee Doo... They smiled and clapped almost the entire show... The also ate really well... The food was very good, down-home cooking... We like that there is assigned seating... You don't have to show up super early to wait on a line to get a good seat... We like that you get what you pay for... We arrived about 30 minutes before the doors openned to give our son time to get in a pony ride (steps away from the doors)...We all had a great time that night and we cannot wait to go back.
The BBQ is not on our list because there is no assigned seating, the menu does not offer the best of foods, uncomfortable picninc table seating, buffet style (for that price we like the idea of being served) and we did not like the draw of the dance floor (we don't want the kids up running around)... If you don't get there super early and you don't want to push people over, you may not get a good seat, and then your kids can't see Mickey or the others... Not a fun time for our family or our needs... To each their own.