But I like cleaning and love a clean house...I find it relaxes me and makes me feel like I have accomplished something.[/QUOTE]
Can you come to my house?
Seriously, I think I have to make a decision as to what is more important - spending the time scrubbing the house so that I can enjoy the way it looks, or ignoring it unless it's really gross and spending the time relaxing instead. There must be a happy medium! I'm definitely starting to recruit the kids to help. I've always just done it on my own. I want them to learn that mom/wife is NOT the maid, even if dad has that fantasy going on.
Can you come to my house?

Seriously, I think I have to make a decision as to what is more important - spending the time scrubbing the house so that I can enjoy the way it looks, or ignoring it unless it's really gross and spending the time relaxing instead. There must be a happy medium! I'm definitely starting to recruit the kids to help. I've always just done it on my own. I want them to learn that mom/wife is NOT the maid, even if dad has that fantasy going on.