Honest opinions,please?

[SplshMtnLvr28]

yes i know. since i could see well enough to read your post, i'm quite sure I could see well enough to notice the smilie in it.

Lmao, you're my hero for the day.

 

[pigletgirl]

Sonya, I'm not trying to be mean.
I'm not trying to critisize.
I'm not trying to make you feel like sh!t.
I got a little out of hand with my words, and I'm sorry.

But I can bring up a few points where you've gotten cancer mixed in with the topic. People instantly get the puppy dog eyes, and come running. Sweetie, I'm not saying people caring is a bad thing. In fact, I can see some advantage points there involving boys...

But to make it a long story short, besides cancer you're not much different from us.

 

[shellybellypolo]

Hmm?
Did you wanna say something?
I've already got every Teen Boarder against me.

It's not like it... pfft... MATTERS OR ANYTHING...

 

[imabrat]

I want to thank everyone who has been supportive of me,and who've been saying prayers and well wishes.
I can NOT tell you how appreciative I am for everything.

For those who think I make to many threads,that's fine.
I just won't update how my surgery went,or how my chemo is going anymore.
For those who think this thread was a bad idea,okay.
Sorry for dragging it out.
Just trying to see what you really think of me.
For those who think I'm being immature,that's great.
I can't change your mind for you,and it's not my problem.

I am not trying to use my disease as an excuse,a defense,or anything else that anyone may think of.
I am simply trying to spread awareness of this horrible disease,and to let those know who think they have it bad,that it could be a whole lot worse.


Okay.
Well I think that's it.
I'm off to go scrounge up something for dinner.
Once again,thank you everyone.
I really do appreciate everything.

 

[disneydance]

I will just give my opinon here w/ out trying to offend anyone at all. I support Sonya w/ her cancer and am going to be praying for her tomorrow as she goes into surgery but ... I really think that this thread is a really bad idea and maybe instead of making lots of threads make one thread where you can give updates on how you are doing and any good news i think that this would be easier and for peolple who dont like all these threads it would work alot better hugs as you go into surgery tomorrow and i hope that everything goes well

 

[PurpleDucky]

I don't think you're using this as an excuse. You have gone through a tough time and you need everything and everyone to support you along the way. Cancer isn't something you go through by yourself

 

[disneychick2721]

Ya know what Sonya I think its fine your keeping us all posted. I have no problem with it. Your a fellow Diser, and I know that everyone really cares and is inspired by you, so you shouldn't feel bad.I know myself, and Im sure many fellow Diser's happy to hear when things get better for you.

 

[Jasmine45]

For those who think I make to many threads,that's fine.
I just won't update how my surgery went,or how my chemo is going anymore.

Oh, no! Please inform Us!!! Just you could put it in one thread.

 

[::Snow_White::]

I want to thank everyone who has been supportive of me,and who've been saying prayers and well wishes.
I can NOT tell you how appreciative I am for everything.

For those who think I make to many threads,that's fine.
I just won't update how my surgery went,or how my chemo is going anymore.
For those who think this thread was a bad idea,okay.

Don't stop updating about yourself just because people don't like it.
And if you really decide to do I REALLY want you to PM me about your surgery.

 

[pigletgirl]

Shelly...

Why can't you give her more grace for what she's been through?

Every living moment, mentally, emtionally, spiritually, physically is it a challenge. Alot of us can't even begin to think what that must feel like minute by minute!!

So, why not give her a little extra attention?

 

[Babyjustrun]

I want to thank everyone who has been supportive of me,and who've been saying prayers and well wishes.
I can NOT tell you how appreciative I am for everything.

For those who think I make to many threads,that's fine.
I just won't update how my surgery went,or how my chemo is going anymore.
For those who think this thread was a bad idea,okay.
Sorry for dragging it out.
Just trying to see what you really think of me.
For those who think I'm being immature,that's great.
I can't change your mind for you,and it's not my problem.

I am not trying to use my disease as an excuse,a defense,or anything else that anyone may think of.
I am simply trying to spread awareness of this horrible disease,and to let those know who think they have it bad,that it could be a whole lot worse.


Okay.
Well I think that's it.
I'm off to go scrounge up something for dinner.
Once again,thank you everyone.
I really do appreciate everything.

aww, sonya, please keep us posted =(
the people who don't like it, will just have to deal with it and hopefully keep their traps shut. honestly, this surgery is big for you, and we want to know how it goes.

 

[My Own Little Corner]

I've heard this from more than one person.
Apparently,people think I use my disease as a defence,an excuse,so that people will suck up to me.
I will not name names.
But the way the people have said it,honestly makes me feel like sh!t.
I am not trying to be a bully,or have people suck up to me.
I would just appreciate genuine well wishes and prayers.

But I just want to know if this is how everyone feels?
Because if it is,I'll just take a break from the DIS,and talk to someone else about my feelings.
It may seem like all I ever post about is my disease,but I doubt anyone else wouldn't do that if it was the only thing on your mind.

ETA: Please Don't Be Negative.

Sonya, If there are people on her that are like that than I really wouldn't be bothered by them. You have been through more than I have in my 17 years and proabbaly more than the majority of the TBers on here. Please don't leave here. I enjoy having you around and you are an inspiration to me. I think I have mentioned that to you before.

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

omg why

 

[Vannah]

Hmm?
Did you wanna say something?
I've already got every Teen Boarder against me.

It's not like it... pfft... MATTERS OR ANYTHING...

I'm not against you, Shelly...

--
Remember when everyone was getting annoyed about how there were like five Harry Potter or Vanessa Hudgens threads floating around on page one and pretty much everyone who wasn't involved in these threads was complaining about them?
Isn't it the same with the whole cancer thing?
Except, of course, that cancer is much more serious than the other stuff.
There are times when I come on the TB and I see a millionbajilliontrillion (exaggeration) cancer threads and I just want to click on the title and SCREAM.
So, maybe you could confine the updates into one thread?
It's not that we don't care, it's just that it does get a bit annoying when there's more than one thread on the same subject.
=]
Prayers to you, Sonya.

 

[pigletgirl]

I don't think its the same as the HSM or Vanessa Hudgens threads.

 

[XxCuriosityxX<3]

omg what was i thinking

 

[Jasmine45]

I'm not against you, Shelly...

--
Remember when everyone was getting annoyed about how there were like five Harry Potter or Vanessa Hudgens threads floating around on page one and pretty much everyone who wasn't involved in these threads was complaining about them?
Isn't it the same with the whole cancer thing?
Except, of course, that cancer is much more serious than the other stuff.
There are times when I come on the TB and I see a millionbajilliontrillion (exaggeration) cancer threads and I just want to click on the title and SCREAM.
So, maybe you could confine the updates into one thread?
It's not that we don't care, it's just that it does get a bit annoying when there's more than one thread on the same subject.
=]
Prayers to you, Sonya.

Agree-ish.
xD

 

[imabrat]

I don't think its the same as the HSM or Vanessa Hudgens threads.

I don't either.
Sorry for trying to spread awareness about a disease.


The problem with one thread is that it gets pushed back a couple of pages and it really is a hassle to find.
If I can find it at all.
So it's easier to just start a new one.

ETA: There's only 2 threads on the main page,out of what..50?
Why get your panties in a twist?

 

[pigletgirl]

Why do you think its the same?

 

[imabrat]

Maybe cause she has more then a little extra attention, but idunno i'm not shelly.

What do you have against me?
You've been bashing me an awful lot lately,and I've done absolutely nothing to you.
Are you jealous or something?
Because that's what it's starting to sound like to me.

And if anyone has a problem with me posting this here,well I'd like you to know that I've tried to PM the person about this and was not successful.