ckay87
demented and sad...but social
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Does your high school have a meet the teacher night? Not conferences, but an evening where you follow your student's schedule around and meet his different teachers? Do you go?
We went to ours last night and for all but 2 classes, we (DH and I) were the only parents there. So out of a class of at least 20 (probably more), just one kid's parents show up? Last week we attended the same event at the Middle School and I'd say most kids' parents were there. Maybe 75%. And of course in elementary school, every single parent was there, as I recall.
So what is the difference? Why is it so much more important to parents to meet the elementary/ms teachers than the high school teachers? These are not meetings about a child's progress, these are a handshake and a 5 minute course overview. I admit, it's a late night and I'd rather be doing other things. But it will be important to me to have some point of reference throughout the year when DS talks about a class or a teacher.
It seems like parents go nutso over school involvement on the elementary level, but then can easily let 4 years pass without even stepping foot inside the high school.
I admit to skipping parent-teacher conferences on the high school level. I stay aware of his grade at all times. If the grade is bad, it's pretty clear the reason why - not enough studying and homework completion. I don't feel like I need a conference for that.
But yea, I was astounded that there was such a tiny percentage of parents there at the high school last night, you know?
We went to ours last night and for all but 2 classes, we (DH and I) were the only parents there. So out of a class of at least 20 (probably more), just one kid's parents show up? Last week we attended the same event at the Middle School and I'd say most kids' parents were there. Maybe 75%. And of course in elementary school, every single parent was there, as I recall.
So what is the difference? Why is it so much more important to parents to meet the elementary/ms teachers than the high school teachers? These are not meetings about a child's progress, these are a handshake and a 5 minute course overview. I admit, it's a late night and I'd rather be doing other things. But it will be important to me to have some point of reference throughout the year when DS talks about a class or a teacher.
It seems like parents go nutso over school involvement on the elementary level, but then can easily let 4 years pass without even stepping foot inside the high school.
I admit to skipping parent-teacher conferences on the high school level. I stay aware of his grade at all times. If the grade is bad, it's pretty clear the reason why - not enough studying and homework completion. I don't feel like I need a conference for that.
But yea, I was astounded that there was such a tiny percentage of parents there at the high school last night, you know?