Help.

[Ms.Squeakers]

I feel terrible.
My best friend just told me he loved me.
The bad/crappy part is... I believe him. *Remember when I told you how I didnt believe in teenage love stuff? Well..this is REALLY different*
He asked me if I liked him back as much as he does..and...I dont know what to say.

Hes my BEST FRIEND.
Im just...im not sure..

I just...
I dont know what to say.

 

[jacensolo3]

even th i was laughing at josh its prolly a good idea to do that but if u dont want to did he like just tell u? if he did maybe u should take some time and sleep on it or maybe talk to him tho i dont know what u'd say really

 

[tinkerbell12]

if he's your best friend, he'll understand that you don't like him the way he likes you.

it might make your friendship awkward for a few days but it'll go back to normal soon.

 

[Tinkerbell424]

If you like him, tell him you like him, but if you don't love him then don't say so.

I hope it all works out.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Its not that its just..
He NEVER gets upset.
NEVER.

He actually got upset.
Then he said "YES OR NO"

and Im freakin out, because I love this guy to death *not like that*, but..at the same time its like "I DONT HAVE A YES OR NO!" because im just not sure at the moment.


Hes like...
Its not that I dont like him for him.
Or...anything.
Its just.. I felt my crush and I clicked, but now my head hurts, and I dont know what to beleive anymore

 

[CastawayJ]

sorry
when I mentioned the one chance

I ment try it out for real from that perspective

 

[Tinkerbell424]

Its not that its just..
He NEVER gets upset.
NEVER.

He actually got upset.
Then he said "YES OR NO"

and Im freakin out, because I love this guy to death *not like that*, but..at the same time its like "I DONT HAVE A YES OR NO!" because im just not sure at the moment.


Hes like...
Its not that I dont like him for him.
Or...anything.
Its just.. I felt my crush and I clicked, but now my head hurts, and I dont know what to beleive anymore

Don't let that pressure you into saying either yes or no.
Tell him you don't know and you have to think about.
I'm sure he will understand.

 

[CastawayJ]

I wish one of my best friends asked me out

so I could try it out
cuz feelings twords certain ones

lets say I'm not to sure of

 

[OneTreeHill]

Just be honest and tell him that you're not sure of your feelings yet.
I'm sure he will understand that you need sometime to think it over.

 

[AmandaSparks730]

Aww *arm hugs Mouse*

That's sweet of him

But, all I can say is, follow your heart and your instincts.

I went out with a best friend, and...well, it didn't work out. We both rushed into it, we didn't think about it, and it didn't end up pretty.

Just tell him how you feel

I'm here for ya if you wanna talk!

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I wish one of my best friends asked me out

so I could try it out
cuz feelings twords certain ones

lets say I'm not to sure of

Its not that... Its just..he LOVES me.
Its just odd. We always were like "Luv you" as a joke and we are just...well. Best Friends.

Now its all different, and I'm all frazzled, and I guess its because I never thought of it like that, and he told me that he didnt like anyone 10 minutes ago, and now its like..all pouring out.

 

[AbsoluteAwesome1]

Its not that... Its just..he LOVES me.
Its just odd. We always were like "Luv you" as a joke and we are just...well. Best Friends.

Now its all different, and I'm all frazzled, and I guess its because I never thought of it like that, and he told me that he didnt like anyone 10 minutes ago, and now its like..all pouring out.

May I say that I'm jealous? Lol. xD

None of the guys I know are that open about their feelings.
Maybe you could try going out with him for like, a week, and if it's too weird, then go back to normal?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

He even sang me Queen lyrics.
*cries*

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I mean, this is werd, Ive never had a best guy friend before, and now that I do, it turns out he really likes me.

Im so weirded out, yet...that took guts.

 

[valeriesunshine]

Yes, dont let him pressure you into making a decision. Put your foot down and tell him you have to think about it. And if you think you have aleast some feelings for him, go out on one date, just to see if you have the same feelings as he does.

Sorry to add in something Twilight related but, Jacob is Bella's best friend. He loves her and Bella is unsure if she could love him back but Jacob is still her best friend even though he knows that Bella doesnt have the same feelings for him.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Thanks you guys.
Ive been stalling, and I think its working so far.

Im the best staller and arm hugger there is!

 

[disneychick2721]

Don't let him pressure you.
If he really lovedyou he wouldn't want you to feel pressured into something.

Just let him know that your not sure and that you need time to think.

So think about the Pros and Cons if you were a couple, what will happen if it ends, will you guys feel awkward, etc...

Really Mouse just follow what you think is right.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Thanks, you guys were really there through the tough part.
Its calmed down a lot and its like normal except on the inside we are both panicking like CRAZY.

 

[CastawayJ]

and if you need
you can have a friend explane it to him
so you can stall longer

or
you can even have a friend on here do it for you
so no one else has to find out

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Let me put it into perspective.

Girls :

Imagine if your best GIRL friend liked you


Boys :

Imagine if your best GUY friend liked you.


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Thats sorta like how this feels, yet at the same time, he IS the opposite gender.