I feel like such an idiot.. I have never flown before and we are leaving Friday for Disney for 10 days.. there are 4 of us me, dh, ds17 and ds10 we are flying on a little 36 passenger jet.. I dont know how to pack.. we have boarding bags for each of the four of us.. to large suitcases and 4 roller carryons. I have taken things in and out and rearranged so many times today.. I need some advice.. I have this fear of our luggage getting lost. I dont no why... I have packed a few outfits in each case.. but then part of me doesnt want to have to check anything.. But I am afraid because of the size of the plane that they are going to make us check our small roller carryons.. ok.. if they do.. and something gets lost.. oh no... we are out some clothes.. even if I divided them throughout.. but then we have extra shoes. a airmattres.. a small fan.. and Which suitcase do I put our bathroom bag in... (our luck thats the one that wont show up) there isnt enough room in the boarding bags for it .. because we each have an outfit,, swimsuit, camera.. and personal items... I am sorry I am rambling . .but does anyone know what I should do?? I have called Delta serveral times trying to get different operaters to tell me for sure if they will gate check or check but I cant get a straight answer... they only say.. each of us can have a carryon and a personal item... Is a boarding bag considered a personal item? According to the website.. a diaper bag is a personal item.. or a camera bag.. well our camera bags our in our boarding bags and they are not as big as a diaperbag... So can anyone help.. I need advice from anyone who has ever flown on this type of plane.... Thanks in advance for any advice you can give me.. and again sorry for the rambling.. its going to be Thursday before I know it and I still wont be packed if I dont make up my mind...