I'm so sorry to hear about your experience w/AAA. I too had bad experience w/them on a hawaii trip! I thought my TA was just great until....I showed up day before our trip to get some traveler's checks. I just happened to see her and she said "have a great trip, and oh, by the way, I just called and confirmed all your flight reservations for you so you don't need to do anything. You're all set."
I shouldn't have been so trusting. I would normally call and confirm that myself but in last minute rush and all, I relied upon her statements. Bad idea.

Our flight was set to leave around 8:30 am so we showed up around 6ish or so. When we got to the airport, we found out AA had cancelled our flight (this was during a time they were decreasing flights due to under capacity i guess). We had been reassigned to a 6am flight, and we had just missed it! The counter people told me this cancellation had occured days before, so something was amiss.
We were able to rebook our flights, but had to add an extra connection and got real crappy seats. We lost our good window seats we had booked 4 months earlier and got middle aisle. We also had reserved good tv seats. Short flights don't matter as much but we had 12 hours of flying to do and we'd never been to hawaii and wanted window seats! I guess when you don't show up for a flight, they kick out your whole reservation, and you have no choice but to rebook with whatever's left.
When we were waiting at the dallas airport, i left my TA a msg on her voicemail to let her know what had happened. I thought maybe we'd have a msg from her at our hotel or an I'm sorry gift when we got to our hotel in Maui. No such luck.

We stayed in Maui for 7 days. Never heard from her.
Then we were off to Oahu for 4 days. I thought, you know I'd better dbl ck that when the airport lady reentered my data that this island hop got put back in too. On that one, I actually had the real tickets, not etickets, so I thought it'd be no problem. Wrong! That too was cancelled. I called TA again. She finally returned call and said that she confirmed I had a flight but failed to confirm flight time and wasn't aware our flight time had changed. She said she was sorry. But it was too late for me.
I won't use AAA again. I'd even heard on these boards how cheap they could get on Disney cruises. But, my past experience w/them prevented me from even getting a quote. I did learn my lesson. Even if your TA says they confirmed something for you....ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS confirm it directly yourself too.
Well, I hope it works out for you!