my husband was soooo skeptical about just the two of us doing wdw when i first went to him about going without the kids...so what i did was make him a great dinner (reminding him we could make reservations for great grown up meals) and then i handed him a photo of myself in a very adult cinderella costume (reminding him of what we could do when we took a mid-day break from the parks etc...) he now tells all his friends that you should NEVER go to disney with your kids that it kills all your disney fun lol. just a thought but it worked for me.