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He wasfound in his bed but moved to the floor by EMT's to be able to work on him.
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He wasfound in his bed but moved to the floor by EMT's to be able to work on him.
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They didn't, hence the incomplete. I think they are saying there is no obvious physical cause, like an aneurysm or something else that could be established w/out the info from the toxicology report. They are reporting that it'll take 10 days - 2 weeks for those results.
I was so shocked when I heard. I loved him in 10 Things I Hate About You. He's my second teen celebrity crush (I was a teen at the time) to pass on too soon (first was Jonathan Brandis several years ago).
Just so sad.
WHOA - I had a crazy teenage crush on Jonathon Brandis - I had no idea he committed suicide.... so sad...
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And just to elaborate a little more...his bed was just a mattress on the floor. Apparently not a very far move from bed to floor.
I watched a news segment this morning from a recent interview. I thought he seemed strained and uncomfortable. My husbands thought was that he was just that type of guy. I have never observed one of his interviews before so I couldnt tell if this was just his normal behavior.
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I-Reporters recall meeting kind, handsome Heath LedgerStory Highlights
(CNN) -- CNN.com reader Kristy O'Connor took a prenatal yoga class with Heath Ledger and Michelle Williams and says she was "in awe of his devotion and attention to Michelle." Reader Dena Michnowih says she came across Ledger in Brooklyn, New York, teaching his young daughter Matilda her right from her left, and was enchanted.
Heath Ledger is pictured with crew of the 2005 film "Lords of Dogtown" and members of the Zephyr skating team.
1 of 2 CNN.com asked readers to share their memories of Ledger, who was found dead in a New York apartment Tuesday, January 22. Famous for his roles in the films, "The Patriot" and "Lords of Dogtown," Ledger was widely acclaimed for his portrayal of the homosexual cowboy Ennis del Mar in 2005's "Brokeback Mountain."
CNN.com readers describe meeting Ledger in person, and call him humble and kind. Below are a selection of their responses, some of which have been edited for length and clarity.
Donal Logue, actor, of Los Angeles, California
I met Heath eight years ago while working on "The Patriot." He became a star while we were sequestered away in a small town in South Carolina based on the strength of the dailies going back to Los Angeles. Heath was a fantastically kind and sweet young man. He surrounded himself with his friends from Australia and never forgot any of us he ever worked with. I last saw him in Australia when he called my name on a Melbourne street and introduced me to Michelle, his (then) pregnant [girlfriend].
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I have great memories of going for runs with him or watching a bootleg copy of a Parker and Stone's musical called "Cannibal! The Musical of the Donner Party Tragedy." Heath must have been in a place of great pain and sadness to be split from his wife and child. He was sensitive and unfairly victimized in his native country by the unfortunate Australian custom called the "tall poppy syndrome" in which an Australian, the second he or she achieves global success, is immediately and arbitrarily accused of losing all of their humanity. Not true. He was a sweet person, and less importantly, an unbelievably talented actor. Maybe the best of his generation.
Dan Bova of Larchmont, New York
Once when I was driving in Brooklyn, I got a flat tire. As I was jacking up my car, this deep voice from behind me said, "Need a hand?" It was Heath Ledger. I couldn't believe it. He helped jack up my car and change the tire. He was really good with tools!
R. of Perth, Western Australia
I grew up with Heath around the speedway racing circuit. I remember the night he was a little boy and his Dad was racing speed cars at Claremont Speedway (my dad was in the race, too). His dad was coming 3rd then in the final corner, the two lead cars spun out and Heath's dad Kim took the lead and won the State Title race. Heath was standing a couple of rows in front of me with his mum and sister and they were all so excited, jumping up and down and cheering. He was about as happy as a little boy could be watching his dad become a champion. I remember that night because in the years that followed, I saw his parents marriage break up and it was like there was this moment in his childhood of pure joy that I witnessed.
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Later Heath would pit crew for Graham Jones, and I crewed for my dad and brother. Heath and I were both the youngest on our crews so that meant our job was to take the fiberglass bonnets over to the hoses and wash the mud off after each race really dirty work but he managed to stay cleaner than the rest of us.
Crystal Davis of Toronto, Ontario
I met Heath in L.A. at a mall a year or so ago. I was staring at him working up the nerve to ask for an autograph. He saw me, started laughing and walked towards me. He said I was white as an "egg" and asked if he could do anything. I said, No thanks ... yes I forgot to ask for the autograph. He touched my shoulder and told me to take it easy and walked away. He looked back several times and smiled. What a great memory I have of him. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
Dena Michnowich of Glen Cove, New York
I was walking in the lower east side of Manhattan one day and I noticed a really cute man holding his little daughter on his shoulders. She looked just like him. He told her that they had to make a right and asked her to point them in the right direction, which she did. I soon realized that it was Heath Ledger and I got really excited. I was walking right up to them as they were waiting to cross the street. When I got close, I waved and he smiled at me. He was so handsome I got the chills. I could also sense that he had a very sweet spirit. It was a very special moment for me. I'm so sad to hear that he died.
Leanne Scorzoni of Staten Island, New York
I worked as a nanny for a number of years in Manhattan, and I ended up having a toddler class with my charge and Heath, Michelle and baby Matilda. The couple was so polite and laid back at first I didn't recognize who they were. They were genuinely interested in their child, her development, and treating the rest of us (including staff) with respect. He will be sorely missed.
Michael Williams of Perth, Western Australia
I met Heath Ledger many years ago while I was working at a local fast food outlet here in Perth Western Australia. He came through to order and I was amazed at how polite, kind and friendly he was. He stopped to sign autographs while he waited knowing that to the people asking him he was somewhat of a hero. He did all this with the great Australian attitude that he had and a smile on his face, he was one superstar that took stardom well and in his stride, I for one feel thankful that I have met this great person.
I send my deepest sympathy to his family and say to them that you do not mourn his passing alone; the people of Perth share your grief.
Tracy Kimball of Rock Hill, South Carolina
I met Heath Ledger in 1999 while he was filming "The Patriot" in South Carolina. I was a reporter for a daily newspaper there and he was at a press conference about the movie at Historic Brattonsville, a Revolutionary-era plantation. He was so very kind and was more than happy to sign my newspaper. The media was flocking around Mel Gibson, but seeing a new young and dashingly gorgeous guy standing off to himself, I approached him and asked for his autograph. He flashed that smile, grabbed my pen and used my back to sign the newspaper I was holding.
We had a conversation, but I don't remember it because I was so enamored. I had never heard of him before because the only American movie he had filmed was "Ten Things I Hate About You," which I had not yet seen. I went back to the paper where I worked and wrote a story about the new hot Aussie star that would surely become hugely successful in America. His death really saddens me. He was such a talented actor and a new dad. Having a child the same age as his daughter, it makes me even sadder to think of her missing her father.
Amanda Olmstead of Penticton, British Columbia
I met Heath when he was filming "Brokeback Mountain" in my hometown of Fort Macleod. He was a down to earth man with amazing talent. His portrayal of Ennis del Mar was life-changing for many of my friends. I am truly saddened by his death.
Kristy O'Connor of Sydney, Australia
My heart goes out to Heath's family and little Matilda, I met Heath one time at a prenatal yoga class in Sydney with Michelle and was in awe of his devotion and attention to her. He was a true gentleman and I'm sure an amazing father. To make assumptions as to how or why he died is to bring more pain to an already devastated family.
Adrian K. of Perth, Western Australia
I met Heath one night on the town in Perth. The one-degree of separation rule in Perth made him a friend of a friend. We had a brief and quiet chat. What struck me was his calm in the face of his monstrous burgeoning celebrity. With both of his feet planted firmly on the ground, he seemed to be facing the publicity with stoic resolve. Goodnight, Heath. You were a good bloke.
"A sad fan" in Chicago, Illinois
I was an extra in the movie "Dark Knight," which filmed in Chicago this past summer. I spend an entire weekend on set with Heath. He was rather quiet most of the time between takes, but seemed to be a nice, likeable guy. It was great to watch him work, as he was very committed to his craft. His death is a great loss.
Kelly Fishburne of West Palm Beach, Florida
I met Heath Ledger while working in Atlanta. We both were taking a CNN tour. He was silly, smiling all the time and we spoke about horses and riding lessons. He was also talking about the movie the Patriot he filmed with Mel Gibson. He had to do lots of riding. He was down to earth and so very talkative. Just a normal guy, hanging out. A real gentleman.
Jessi Lee of Central, South Carolina
I really enjoyed Heath's acting. His best movie was my favorite movie of 2005, "Lords Of Dogtown." Heath played the somewhat obnoxious Skip Engblom, but thinking of all the other actors who could have taken the roll, I don't think anyone could have done it better.
Even two of the original Zephyr shop boys themselves. Tony Alva & Stacy Peralta, said when Heath came in & did the voice he would use in the film, it was like hearing Skip from the past
(CNN) -- CNN.com reader Kristy O'Connor took a prenatal yoga class with Heath Ledger and Michelle Williams and says she was "in awe of his devotion and attention to Michelle." Reader Dena Michnowih says she came across Ledger in Brooklyn, New York, teaching his young daughter Matilda her right from her left, and was enchanted.
Heath Ledger is pictured with crew of the 2005 film "Lords of Dogtown" and members of the Zephyr skating team.
1 of 2 CNN.com asked readers to share their memories of Ledger, who was found dead in a New York apartment Tuesday, January 22. Famous for his roles in the films, "The Patriot" and "Lords of Dogtown," Ledger was widely acclaimed for his portrayal of the homosexual cowboy Ennis del Mar in 2005's "Brokeback Mountain."
CNN.com readers describe meeting Ledger in person, and call him humble and kind. Below are a selection of their responses, some of which have been edited for length and clarity.
Donal Logue, actor, of Los Angeles, California
I met Heath eight years ago while working on "The Patriot." He became a star while we were sequestered away in a small town in South Carolina based on the strength of the dailies going back to Los Angeles. Heath was a fantastically kind and sweet young man. He surrounded himself with his friends from Australia and never forgot any of us he ever worked with. I last saw him in Australia when he called my name on a Melbourne street and introduced me to Michelle, his (then) pregnant [girlfriend].
Showbiz Tonight
Watch complete coverage of the investigation into the sudden death of Heath Ledger.
Tonight, 11 ET/PT on Headline News
see full schedule »
I have great memories of going for runs with him or watching a bootleg copy of a Parker and Stone's musical called "Cannibal! The Musical of the Donner Party Tragedy." Heath must have been in a place of great pain and sadness to be split from his wife and child. He was sensitive and unfairly victimized in his native country by the unfortunate Australian custom called the "tall poppy syndrome" in which an Australian, the second he or she achieves global success, is immediately and arbitrarily accused of losing all of their humanity. Not true. He was a sweet person, and less importantly, an unbelievably talented actor. Maybe the best of his generation.
Dan Bova of Larchmont, New York
Once when I was driving in Brooklyn, I got a flat tire. As I was jacking up my car, this deep voice from behind me said, "Need a hand?" It was Heath Ledger. I couldn't believe it. He helped jack up my car and change the tire. He was really good with tools!
R. of Perth, Western Australia
I grew up with Heath around the speedway racing circuit. I remember the night he was a little boy and his Dad was racing speed cars at Claremont Speedway (my dad was in the race, too). His dad was coming 3rd then in the final corner, the two lead cars spun out and Heath's dad Kim took the lead and won the State Title race. Heath was standing a couple of rows in front of me with his mum and sister and they were all so excited, jumping up and down and cheering. He was about as happy as a little boy could be watching his dad become a champion. I remember that night because in the years that followed, I saw his parents marriage break up and it was like there was this moment in his childhood of pure joy that I witnessed.
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People.com: Heath Ledger's biography
Autopsy fails to uncover how Ledger died
Time.com: Heath Ledger: Star in distress
Later Heath would pit crew for Graham Jones, and I crewed for my dad and brother. Heath and I were both the youngest on our crews so that meant our job was to take the fiberglass bonnets over to the hoses and wash the mud off after each race really dirty work but he managed to stay cleaner than the rest of us.
Crystal Davis of Toronto, Ontario
I met Heath in L.A. at a mall a year or so ago. I was staring at him working up the nerve to ask for an autograph. He saw me, started laughing and walked towards me. He said I was white as an "egg" and asked if he could do anything. I said, No thanks ... yes I forgot to ask for the autograph. He touched my shoulder and told me to take it easy and walked away. He looked back several times and smiled. What a great memory I have of him. My prayers go out to his family and friends.
Dena Michnowich of Glen Cove, New York
I was walking in the lower east side of Manhattan one day and I noticed a really cute man holding his little daughter on his shoulders. She looked just like him. He told her that they had to make a right and asked her to point them in the right direction, which she did. I soon realized that it was Heath Ledger and I got really excited. I was walking right up to them as they were waiting to cross the street. When I got close, I waved and he smiled at me. He was so handsome I got the chills. I could also sense that he had a very sweet spirit. It was a very special moment for me. I'm so sad to hear that he died.
Leanne Scorzoni of Staten Island, New York
I worked as a nanny for a number of years in Manhattan, and I ended up having a toddler class with my charge and Heath, Michelle and baby Matilda. The couple was so polite and laid back at first I didn't recognize who they were. They were genuinely interested in their child, her development, and treating the rest of us (including staff) with respect. He will be sorely missed.
Michael Williams of Perth, Western Australia
I met Heath Ledger many years ago while I was working at a local fast food outlet here in Perth Western Australia. He came through to order and I was amazed at how polite, kind and friendly he was. He stopped to sign autographs while he waited knowing that to the people asking him he was somewhat of a hero. He did all this with the great Australian attitude that he had and a smile on his face, he was one superstar that took stardom well and in his stride, I for one feel thankful that I have met this great person.
I send my deepest sympathy to his family and say to them that you do not mourn his passing alone; the people of Perth share your grief.
Tracy Kimball of Rock Hill, South Carolina
I met Heath Ledger in 1999 while he was filming "The Patriot" in South Carolina. I was a reporter for a daily newspaper there and he was at a press conference about the movie at Historic Brattonsville, a Revolutionary-era plantation. He was so very kind and was more than happy to sign my newspaper. The media was flocking around Mel Gibson, but seeing a new young and dashingly gorgeous guy standing off to himself, I approached him and asked for his autograph. He flashed that smile, grabbed my pen and used my back to sign the newspaper I was holding.
We had a conversation, but I don't remember it because I was so enamored. I had never heard of him before because the only American movie he had filmed was "Ten Things I Hate About You," which I had not yet seen. I went back to the paper where I worked and wrote a story about the new hot Aussie star that would surely become hugely successful in America. His death really saddens me. He was such a talented actor and a new dad. Having a child the same age as his daughter, it makes me even sadder to think of her missing her father.
Amanda Olmstead of Penticton, British Columbia
I met Heath when he was filming "Brokeback Mountain" in my hometown of Fort Macleod. He was a down to earth man with amazing talent. His portrayal of Ennis del Mar was life-changing for many of my friends. I am truly saddened by his death.
Kristy O'Connor of Sydney, Australia
My heart goes out to Heath's family and little Matilda, I met Heath one time at a prenatal yoga class in Sydney with Michelle and was in awe of his devotion and attention to her. He was a true gentleman and I'm sure an amazing father. To make assumptions as to how or why he died is to bring more pain to an already devastated family.
Adrian K. of Perth, Western Australia
I met Heath one night on the town in Perth. The one-degree of separation rule in Perth made him a friend of a friend. We had a brief and quiet chat. What struck me was his calm in the face of his monstrous burgeoning celebrity. With both of his feet planted firmly on the ground, he seemed to be facing the publicity with stoic resolve. Goodnight, Heath. You were a good bloke.
"A sad fan" in Chicago, Illinois
I was an extra in the movie "Dark Knight," which filmed in Chicago this past summer. I spend an entire weekend on set with Heath. He was rather quiet most of the time between takes, but seemed to be a nice, likeable guy. It was great to watch him work, as he was very committed to his craft. His death is a great loss.
Kelly Fishburne of West Palm Beach, Florida
I met Heath Ledger while working in Atlanta. We both were taking a CNN tour. He was silly, smiling all the time and we spoke about horses and riding lessons. He was also talking about the movie the Patriot he filmed with Mel Gibson. He had to do lots of riding. He was down to earth and so very talkative. Just a normal guy, hanging out. A real gentleman.
Jessi Lee of Central, South Carolina
I really enjoyed Heath's acting. His best movie was my favorite movie of 2005, "Lords Of Dogtown." Heath played the somewhat obnoxious Skip Engblom, but thinking of all the other actors who could have taken the roll, I don't think anyone could have done it better.
Even two of the original Zephyr shop boys themselves. Tony Alva & Stacy Peralta, said when Heath came in & did the voice he would use in the film, it was like hearing Skip from the past
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I thought that was a great story too Jenny. Finally them not reporting on supposed 'facts,' just giving us personal stories.
He will be greatly missed in my household. Dh had a major man-crush on him and I really loved him too. We own ALL of his movies, including Roar (a short lived Hercules-esque TV show he was the star of early in his career).
I was SOOO excited to hear he got the Joker job (my screen name--Harley Quinn is Joker's girlfriend in the comic books). It's just terrible.
He will be greatly missed in my household. Dh had a major man-crush on him and I really loved him too. We own ALL of his movies, including Roar (a short lived Hercules-esque TV show he was the star of early in his career).
I was SOOO excited to hear he got the Joker job (my screen name--Harley Quinn is Joker's girlfriend in the comic books). It's just terrible.
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The Daily Mail is complete trash...I wouldn't beleive a word they say! I notice that all the 'negative' comments came from 'sources' whilst all the ones saying he seemed fine beforehand were from people who knew him!
The most telling bit about the 'story' (and with the Mail that's the most important word...STORY) was this so-called quote from Jack Nicholson...
A revealing – if ambiguous - comment made by Jack Nicholson hints he was aware Ledger was battling personal demons.
The acting veteran, who played the Batman's most famous Joker, said in London last night: "I warned him.”
I heard an interview this evening on the BBC with Nicholson and Morgan Freeman - they both said they didn't know the guy personally but he was a great loss. so how on earth did Jack 'WARN' him?!!!
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This is so sad, tragic. He was so young and talented. His daughter will not grow up knowing him. I can't imagine how his parents must feel, to lose a son, really tragic.I always loved his voice. I hate when stuff like this happens.
The acting veteran, who played the Batman's most famous Joker, said in London last night: "I warned him. [/I]
I heard an interview this evening on the BBC with Nicholson and Morgan Freeman - they both said they didn't know the guy personally but he was a great loss. so how on earth did Jack 'WARN' him?!!!
I don't doubt that the Daily Mail is trash.
But you can see (sort of) and hear Jack's comments here:http://www.jossip.com/jack-told-him-so-20080123/
Very disappointing.
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The Daily Mail is complete trash...I wouldn't beleive a word they say! I notice that all the 'negative' comments came from 'sources' whilst all the ones saying he seemed fine beforehand were from people who knew him!
The most telling bit about the 'story' (and with the Mail that's the most important word...STORY) was this so-called quote from Jack Nicholson...
A revealing if ambiguous - comment made by Jack Nicholson hints he was aware Ledger was battling personal demons.
The acting veteran, who played the Batman's most famous Joker, said in London last night: "I warned him.
I heard an interview this evening on the BBC with Nicholson and Morgan Freeman - they both said they didn't know the guy personally but he was a great loss. so how on earth did Jack 'WARN' him?!!!
Trash it may be. So perhaps we can all go forward with the notion that this was not a troubled young man at all. He was just an unfortunate fellow who varied the dosage on his harmless sleeping pills at a sadly wrong time. Toxicology will tell the tale of course. I suppose I just get a tad annoyed when the global culture chooses to mourn any such passing free of discernment. If that is all we are permitted to do perhaps it would be best for us all to butt out and attend to life under our own roofs and around our own corners.
FTR, I thought Ledger was an excellent young actor. I only wish he could have been around longer; I think he would have had a fascinating career. It is a great tragedy for his family regardless of circumstances of his death.
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The Daily Mail is complete trash...I wouldn't beleive a word they say! I notice that all the 'negative' comments came from 'sources' whilst all the ones saying he seemed fine beforehand were from people who knew him!
The most telling bit about the 'story' (and with the Mail that's the most important word...STORY) was this so-called quote from Jack Nicholson...
A revealing if ambiguous - comment made by Jack Nicholson hints he was aware Ledger was battling personal demons.
The acting veteran, who played the Batman's most famous Joker, said in London last night: "I warned him.
I heard an interview this evening on the BBC with Nicholson and Morgan Freeman - they both said they didn't know the guy personally but he was a great loss. so how on earth did Jack 'WARN' him?!!!
TMZ has the video of Jack saying "I warned him."
He is asked to comment on Heath Ledger's death. He asks what happened to him. Is told 'overdose' and responds 'that's terrible' and then says "I warned him."
There is later video from today of him talking about how he warned people about the dangers of Ambien (which Heath said in an interview he was taking).
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Ahh but the vultures are a-circling' . As reported by yahoo news:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080123/ap_on_en_mo/obit_ledger
They found a "rolled up $20 bill". Being tested for drug residue apparently.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080123/ap_on_en_mo/obit_ledger
They found a "rolled up $20 bill". Being tested for drug residue apparently.
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From Perez:
"An earlier report from CBS News in New York that illegal drugs and narcotics residue on a $20 bill were found in the home of deceased actor Heath Ledger has turned out to be untrue.
The Associated Press now reports:
"A rolled-up $20 bill was found near Heath Ledger's body, though no illegal drugs were found in his apartment, police said Wednesday.
The bill would be taken to a lab for testing, though no visible drug residue was found on it, police said." "
From TMZ:
UPDATE: Cops in New York say the rolled-up $20 bill did not appear to have any drug residue on it -- but they are in the process of testing it.
"An earlier report from CBS News in New York that illegal drugs and narcotics residue on a $20 bill were found in the home of deceased actor Heath Ledger has turned out to be untrue.
The Associated Press now reports:
"A rolled-up $20 bill was found near Heath Ledger's body, though no illegal drugs were found in his apartment, police said Wednesday.
The bill would be taken to a lab for testing, though no visible drug residue was found on it, police said." "
From TMZ:
UPDATE: Cops in New York say the rolled-up $20 bill did not appear to have any drug residue on it -- but they are in the process of testing it.
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I suppose I just get a tad annoyed when people start assuming things surrounding strangers' deaths. Maybe he snorted his head full of cocaine, maybe he just took one too many sleeping pills, who knows? All this speculation and all the rumors--it's so morbid. Someone's family member got wheeled out into the street in a body bag yesterday in front of tons of cameras. It's disgusting. I couldn't imagine if, when my mother died, paparazzi was outside the hospice taking photos when she was taken away.
I don't care why he died; it doesn't affect me if it was accidental, suicide or due to illegal drugs. I do think it's disrespectful for posters here to start assuming things when none of us ever met him. Once the toxicology report comes back, then we can jump all over him for being a druggie, if that's the case.
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I suppose I just get a tad annoyed when people start assuming things surrounding strangers' deaths. Maybe he snorted his head full of cocaine, maybe he just took one too many sleeping pills, who knows? All this speculation and all the rumors--it's so morbid. Someone's family member got wheeled out into the street in a body bag yesterday in front of tons of cameras. It's disgusting. I couldn't imagine if, when my mother died, paparazzi was outside the hospice taking photos when she was taken away.
I don't care why he died; it doesn't affect me if it was accidental, suicide or due to illegal drugs. I do think it's disrespectful for posters here to start assuming things when none of us ever met him. Once the toxicology report comes back, then we can jump all over him for being a druggie, if that's the case.
So butting out would be your suggestion? Not to get all philosophical on you, but then why would this thread exist?
I'm not jumping on the dude for being a druggie. I'm just pointing out that there seems to be circumstantial evidence that would point out that lifestyle choices may have made him more susceptible to such an accident. Who knows... maybe there's a lesson to be learned from the tragedy. It's not like the guy walked out in front of a bus.
Maybe we could just have a thread that consisted of a filmography and 8 million of these
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When people commit suicide, they have their reasons. I tend to leave them alone after that.Once the toxicology report comes back, then we can jump all over him for being a druggie, if that's the case.
But I do like it when the celebs die from drug overdoses. It gives DH and I the opportunity to talk to the kids about drugs without actually doing it. You lecture, it generally goes in one ear and out the other.
Something like this, though, would be an excellent opportunity. I'll say, "Did you hear another of those Hollywood morons did himself in?" He'll say, "No!" Then I'll say, "Heath Ledger. You know who he was, Mindy?" and DD will say that she does and she likes him, he was in this or that. And I'll add, "Well, now he's nowhere. He's dead. Idiot." And I'll turn back to DH and say, "Will those people NEVER LEARN?! You take drugs, you might die!" And he'll add that they won't learn because they're stupid. We'll laught at him and then move on to some other topic.
It sounds mean, but it is how we drive it home to our kids. Taking drugs is stupid and can kill you. If you do it, you are stupid and risking your life.
I don't personally care about this guy or mean him any harm. But I take my opportunities where I can grab them. So, I'm kind of hoping - if he has to be dead, anyway - that it was drugs.
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I don't think one post on this site has ever effected me more than this one.
You actually hope that a young man died of a drug overdose so you can teach your kids a lesson?
Who cares about HIS child or HIS family? Or maybe some of his fans who all hope this was a tragic accident?I can't even form thoughts.
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Thats pretty cold. You're right it does sound mean, very mean. Are you unable to teach lifes lessons to your children and also teach them tolerance?
I don't think one post on this site has ever effected me more than this one.
You actually hope that a young man died of a drug overdose so you can teach your kids a lesson?
I can't even form thoughts.
Yeah, that post really got to me too!
I reread to make sure I was clear on the poster's intention. I sure hope no one ever wishes something like that on my family so a lesson could be learned. geez
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