Thanks for the answers.....I thought I had read a long time ago on the FTW page about some kind of party/reception at the Haunted Mansion. Plus that and with the options for park weddings is what brought this to the fore front of my mind. Tower of Terror is another cool suggestion....... Never looked at it in that light.
Janet2K
Very cool to have the servers dressed in HM garb. Too bad anything I would wear would put them to shame.....

Don't mean to trash them. Just mine are better.
You and I are of one mind when it comes to Halloween. I live, eat, breath the holiday 24/7 365 days a year......If you would like to see me in Halloween action look up the Nationally reknowned attraction I work for. Castle Blood at
www.castleblood.com I am known as Tia Diabla or Lady Die.
The coolest thing in my entire Disney life I have ever done was dress villanously for the This is Love event in Feb 2004. It was a costume after hours event when I was going to be there at WDW on my 2nd honeymoon. Never would I have been able to go decked out during October for
MNSSHP since I am working the season. So this was my once in a lifetime chance to do the thing I wanted most. Dress up and be in the MK......
Well anyway this is definitely something I will have to put in the pocket of possibilities. I just think it would be so cool to say I love you with the end all of Halloween attractions as your background. If my husband never gives in to this then I think it would be a very cool surprise for a certain couple I am friends with.
As for size.......any gathering would be at the most 10 if that, so things would be real intimate.