fuzzyjelly
Earning My Ears
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- Aug 3, 2010
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I had a huge hernia repair about a year and a half ago. I have mesh from the bottom of my breasts to my bikini line and around to my sides. The surgery itself wasn't bad. I had very little feeling in the whole area afterward and to this day I'm still numb for about 6 inches around my belly button. A few weeks after surgery my belly button opened into a gaping wound that scared the heck out of me. My husband packed and bandaged it twice a day for six months. It took that long to close.
I'm feeling pretty good about things now, but I certainly feel the mesh, which I was assured was not possible. I love the things that doctors come up with. I feel it stretched across my abdomen, just sitting there mostly. It will pull at the edges if I move or stretch the wrong way. Sometimes it can pull quite hard and hurts a good deal. I also feel it if I get bloated because it doesn't expand with my stomach. This also baffles me because I was told that I would have no problem having kids if I wished to. I can't imagine how. In researching I found stories where women had to allow the mesh to rip away as they got bigger in pregnancy and just have it fixed after giving birth. They all said it was excruciating. Luckily I have chosen not to have children, so I won't have to find out, but I wish doctors would be more honest. How can someone be forced to chose between kids and ripping apart their insides?
Sorry, I got off topic for a bit there, but I do know how you feel with your 'belly armor'. Feel free to drop me a like if you have any questions. You'll get used to all the odd feelings after a bit. They don't really go away, but they become normal and you don't notice them so often.
I'm feeling pretty good about things now, but I certainly feel the mesh, which I was assured was not possible. I love the things that doctors come up with. I feel it stretched across my abdomen, just sitting there mostly. It will pull at the edges if I move or stretch the wrong way. Sometimes it can pull quite hard and hurts a good deal. I also feel it if I get bloated because it doesn't expand with my stomach. This also baffles me because I was told that I would have no problem having kids if I wished to. I can't imagine how. In researching I found stories where women had to allow the mesh to rip away as they got bigger in pregnancy and just have it fixed after giving birth. They all said it was excruciating. Luckily I have chosen not to have children, so I won't have to find out, but I wish doctors would be more honest. How can someone be forced to chose between kids and ripping apart their insides?
Sorry, I got off topic for a bit there, but I do know how you feel with your 'belly armor'. Feel free to drop me a like if you have any questions. You'll get used to all the odd feelings after a bit. They don't really go away, but they become normal and you don't notice them so often.