My DGF and I are planning an October Halloween time trip.
My DGF and I have a significant age difference. I am in my 40s, while she is in her mid-20s. And she is very much young at heart. She sings along with Disney movies, one of her favorite stuffies is Olaf, and she can squee with the best of them, cynicism is an attitude unknown to her. She is, in short, the perfect candidate for
Disneyland magic. She has; however, never been to Disneyland. She grew up very poor and a visit to Disneyland was out of the question. Even now, she retains a sense of Disneyland being epic but ultimately mythological.
As for me I have been to Disneyland before (but not DCA). In fact, I have been a lot. Probably at least 100 times. I had an annual pass back when they first started offering one. I used to be obsessed with the park (and all things Disney). I used to belong to a BBS called Maushaus, etc.
But, all of this was long ago. I haven't been in well over 20 years. This planning stage has been a strange time-warp for me, as I read about rides and spaces and experiences that I had forgotten about, but are now welling up in my emotional memory. Fuzzy at first, but then snapping into crystal clear focus.
What she most wants to avoid...
- A sense of feeling rushed.
- A sense that everything is so regimented that it feels like a military campaign.
What I most want to avoid.
- Battling cranky pushy crowds to go stand in hour plus lines for every ride.
Things she most wants to get out of the trip...
- She wants time to smell the roses and take it all in.
- To meet favorite Characters: those from Frozen, Pocahontas, and some others.
- Shows
- Rides, but not the scary roller-coaster ones with big drops (No ToT or CS).
Above all, the ability to feel and act like a kid without being judged for it.
What I most want to get out of the trip...
- To revisit my old favorites rides, HM, PoTC, etc
- To see what's new
- A decent amount of night time in Disneyland (by far my favorite time).
- To have those little quiet moments of magic that Disneyland is so good at; a romantic moment at Snow White's grotto, great sight-lines and magical backdrops. That awe moment between the end of F! And the crowd's erupting cheer.
- To craft a trip that makes her gasp in awe, and makes her eyes shine in delight.
Here is what I have so far... (I'd love to know if you spot any problems or have comments or suggestions!)
Oct 20th (Tues): Fly out, check into hotel (within walking distance), receive grocery deliver from Vons, eat dinner at Rainforest Cafe, drinks at Trader Sam's, walk around Downtown Disney District.
Oct 21st (Wed): First day at the Parks. Absolutely no schedule or agenda for most the day. Let her follow her nose, exploring the parks. Use my knowledge (both old experience, and new knowledge gleaned from these forums) to make things smooth as possible. Aladdin show that afternoon. Dinner and drinks at Trader Sam's after the Park closes.
Oct 22nd (Thurs): Magic Morning Early entry! Start being a touch more assertive and gently making sure we have FP for popular rides, start filling in gaps we missed from yesterday, etc. WoC dining package at Ariel's Grotto. Go from there directly to wait for WoC (following the 90 min rule). Watch a Disney movie at hotel after the park.
Oct 23rd (Friday): Character breakfast at Storyteller's Cafe (Pocahontas is one of her favorite movies). Explore the parks, etc. Take a break in the afternoon, rest at hotel and change into costumes, Mickey's Halloween Party that night (Villains, fireworks, candy yay!)
Oct 24th (Sat): Breakfast and lunch at hotel. Dinner at Blue Bayou as part of F! Package.
Oct 25th (Sunday): Breakfast and lunch at hotel. Yummy snacks at park. Fireworks tonight! Say goodnight and goodbye to Disneyland.
Oct 26th (Monday): Fly back home...Sleep.
Specifics beyond this regarding shows, parades, etc all will firm up as it gets closer and more specific information is made available.
So what do you all think?
