Ginger said:
..... Thank goodness reality set in, I made the decision to stop trying to please others. .....
Capt. I think that if my DH came home and told me he met a lady on a plane and wanted to name our DD after her I'd be giving him more than "subtle nasty glances". My DD would have gone nameless before that would happen. Your wife is a good sport.
Hey another great day here, I off. DD and I have lots to do today, cause it's back to work for me Friday and Saturday. ....
Ginger....
So... my guests from Hawaii are sound asleep here as 9AM for us is 6AM for them. So I have a couple of minutes to tap a few keys off.
Actually - if you think about it almost everybody is named after, or rather... as someone else has been named. With 6 billion souls on the planet there are probably 1 million or more "Toms", "Janes" and a 150 "Crorksters" and "Fluffies". Yeah... some poor nut is named "Fluffy" out there.
So, my obtaining the name I choose is not really intended to be anything beyond a simple naming. Nothing more was involved than I heard the name as someone introduced herself on parting from a flight. I can't even remember what she looked like... and my wife knows I'm terrible with LAST names but good with first names. Odd but true. So I get a playful lightening bolt glance and no severe pokes to the ribs. The physical assaults are reserved for especially naughty moments. We've been together 22+ years and we THINK we understand one another... to the point of sort of knowing what one antoher is thinking, up to and doing much of the time. Heck, my spouse knows what I'm talking about to the neighbors while she's across the street (once she called out from across the street to tell me something while I chatted with the neighbor, Andy, and she seemed as if she had heard us. My neighbor remarked that her knowledge of what I had spoken of was "Spoky").
At any rate, I would agree.... yes - my spouse IS a good sport for putting up with me (sometimes). She does dental work without novacane because she has an aversion to the stuff and a high tolerance for pain. Some folks think that's how she tolerates being married with me. LOL! Actually I think I am far less of a pain then any dentist has been. Although if you corner her and enquire I'm sure she might quip otherwise - with a smirk.
So... I feel little guilt or vulnerability at (allow me to rephrase the story for the sake of diplomacy) obtining the idea for a name from SOMEONE I met on a flight. Ya kno... I deliberately fanned the drama by saying the young lady was attractive (she was - mildly so - OK, she was sort of cute...

). BUT, the rest of the description was quite accurate... I practiced ignoring her as I had lots of other things on my mind and was reading other stuff and so on. There was NO conversation prior to half way through the flight and this young lady would not quiet down. It must have been troublesome to her that I would not talk to her initially is how I felt. It was like she expected me to pursue conversation and I did not. <does it seem as if my story is causing more trouble for me and my thin reputation?>. It's not like I bought her drinks and work with her regularly or something like that. We were on a flight for a couple of hours - thats all?
I just don't get it... except I notice many are mildly entertained by the story. It IS true. If you had known me 22 years than you would understand... or you might not... dpending on your POV I guess.
Also... I might add that for almost a week after birth our daughter DID GO NAMELESS. You see, she sort of was born early by about 3.5 weeks from her due date. Technically she was 2 days "premature" but it sort of was not like that in reality. So, we were counting on her not arriving until maybe 1 or 2 weeks at the most before her due date. We had not considered the possibility of having her 3+ weeks early. So we had not settled on a name yet. Nor had we completed preparing a baby room or reading all our Parenting books yet. We had both been working up until that day the birth occurred. In fact, my spouse's baby shower was on the day BEFORE our daughter was born! That day she was born was actually the 1st day of maternity leave scheduled. So my spouse laments she never had the benefit of any actual maternity leave BEFORE the birth.
So yeah... we were in the hospital right after birth without our baby name books... so we were on-line from the hospital room looking at baby names for 5 or 6 days trying to settle on a name. Although my spouse was checked out as a normal recovery in a few days our daughter stayed in a couple extra days because of a baby jaundice thing. In retrospect I think of it as a sun tanning thing with the ultra-violet "billy reuben" lights. That part was not too bad excpet for the constant blood draws they kept taking from her tiny feet. THAT... I did not like.
At any rate... there's the long reply on the baby naming thing. And to this day I love her name but con't remember what that girl looked like from the United flight.
