Guy trouble help i don't kno wat2 do

[dopeygirl156]

There's this guy and i talk 2 himonline and we see each other in skool and i've been talking 2 him 4 months and he kno's i like himand he hasn't said anything wat should i do? HELP!!!!!!!!!

 

[Sparx]

how old are you and how old is he?

 

[JediDan2773]

He might like you and just be too shy to say anything. Guys are sometimes stupid like that. They (we) usually want the girl to make the first move. You could ask just ask him, even though you shouldn't have to. I hope it works out.

Good Luck

 

[Sports Blondie]

Most guys do want girls to make the first move i know it makes no sense but all the guys that i have ever talk to about that want girls to make the first move!!
Here are some tips:
Try not to play the first impression game
DO play hard to get
if you ask him out and he says no do not let anyone get involved and just let him be it is alot easier trust some1 with tons of experience

 

[Loves Disney]

He might like you and just be too shy to say anything. Guys are sometimes stupid like that. They (we) usually want the girl to make the first move. You could ask just ask him, even though you shouldn't have to. I hope it works out.

Good Luck

I know LOTS of girls (including myself) who refuse to ask a guy out hoping he'll make the first move lol. Just as a thought...I wonder how many guys and girls out there never got together because both were too afraid to ask the other that infamous question...

To the op, try telling him how you feel again and nudge for a relpy that will tell you his answer. If that still doesn't work, just clearly ask him how he feels about you.

 

[Krystarella]

Maybe he DOESN'T know. If I know anything about guys, it's that they usually are completely oblivious to everything going on around them. (No offense to any guy who may come across this and read this.) But perhaps you should tell him again? But if you're too shy than hint at it. The only thing is, he may no understand what you're trying to say. If you're no comfortable talking to him about these things, maybe you shouldn't go out. I mean, if you two DO go out, than shouldn't you be comfortable talking about things like this?

 

[dopeygirl156]

how old are you and how old is he?

i'm 14 he's 13.

 

[dopeygirl156]

I know LOTS of girls (including myself) who refuse to ask a guy out hoping he'll make the first move lol. Just as a thought...I wonder how many guys and girls out there never got together because both were too afraid to ask the other that infamous question...

To the op, try telling him how you feel again and nudge for a relpy that will tell you his answer. If that still doesn't work, just clearly ask him how he feels about you.

I was thinking about it but he's my worst enimy's cuz and he'll most likely tell her and she'll tell every1 and i don't want that.

 

[Loves Disney]

I was thinking about it but he's my worst enimy's cuz and he'll most likely tell her and she'll tell every1 and i don't want that.

Try telling him that you hope he'll respect you expressing yourself like this and that you trust he'll keep it between just you and him.

 

[hidmickey:myantidrug]

I was thinking about it but he's my worst enimy's cuz and he'll most likely tell her and she'll tell every1 and i don't want that.

Sounds like you're sort of ashamed which is not good. If something happens though, she'll know anyway along with everyone else so I'm not seeing this as a problem really.

 

[Lil_Tink]

I was thinking about it but he's my worst enimy's cuz and he'll most likely tell her and she'll tell every1 and i don't want that.

Well if you too are going out, sooner or later everyone will find out. Beleive me, at 14, news spreads fast.

 

[dopeygirl156]

Well if you too are going out, sooner or later everyone will find out. Beleive me, at 14, news spreads fast.

i know that but were not even going out yet.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

i'm 14 he's 13.

so, you go for the younger guys eh? its ok! i do too. well, sorta. usually, the younger ones are more ''caring'' because they want to like ''impress'' you and they usually are sweeter and kinder to ''older women'' lol. just be yourself. YOU make the first move.......chances are, he'll like ya back. i did once when liked this kid and found out he liked me. be yourself. DONT act fake, and hopefully, nature will do the rest! good luck!

 

[dopeygirl156]

so, you go for the younger guys eh? its ok! i do too. well, sorta. usually, the younger ones are more ''caring'' because they want to like ''impress'' you and they usually are sweeter and kinder to ''older women'' lol. just be yourself. YOU make the first move.......chances are, he'll like ya back. i did once when liked this kid and found out he liked me. be yourself. DONT act fake, and hopefully, nature will do the rest! good luck!

Thanks i'll try it.

 

[VolleyballQt07]

Thanks i'll try it.

good luck!

 

[MissPotatoHead]

aww...well i think everything would work out. girls can handle a lot!! LOL

Good Luck!!

- steph -

 

[dopeygirl156]

good luck!

Thanks i'll need it, i get so nervious.

 

[MissPotatoHead]

Awww.....well...don't be nervous. If you like him that much and you can currently count him as your friend, then treat him like a friend. You should be comfortable around friends. Hey, I think everyone has something they aren't comfortable (yet) or even EVER telling their friend. Like your feelings for him. You'll find the right time. Trust me. Read the Teen Disney thread called:
i need all the advice a girl could get - PLZ READ THIS...

trust me...i have NEVER flirted that much with a guy ALL COMBINED IN MY LIFETIME!!!! NO WAY NEAR COMPARABLE!!!! LOL!!
I really like the guy I met. Oh...and read my last few posts on page 4...it's GREAT!!!! LOL!!

- steph -

 

[dopeygirl156]

Awww.....well...don't be nervous. If you like him that much and you can currently count him as your friend, then treat him like a friend. You should be comfortable around friends. Hey, I think everyone has something they aren't comfortable (yet) or even EVER telling their friend. Like your feelings for him. You'll find the right time. Trust me. Read the Teen Disney thread called:
i need all the advice a girl could get - PLZ READ THIS...

trust me...i have NEVER flirted that much with a guy ALL COMBINED IN MY LIFETIME!!!! NO WAY NEAR COMPARABLE!!!! LOL!!
I really like the guy I met. Oh...and read my last few posts on page 4...it's GREAT!!!! LOL!!

- steph -

Ok thanks i will stop getting nervious around him. Its just i get nervious because i don't really talk to him a lot because i don't see him, but i have a feeling that will change. Thanks a lot, its a big help.

 

[JediDan2773]

I know LOTS of girls (including myself) who refuse to ask a guy out hoping he'll make the first move lol. Just as a thought...I wonder how many guys and girls out there never got together because both were too afraid to ask the other that infamous question...

To the op, try telling him how you feel again and nudge for a relpy that will tell you his answer. If that still doesn't work, just clearly ask him how he feels about you.

I bet it's a large number...

I would really like it if the girl did make the first move but because there are so many I usually just suck it up instead of waiting. It's better in the end.