guy problems.. need advice

[DisneyGirl421]

Ok, here's my problem...

I like this kid Bobby. he's a freshman on the rifle squad in our guard. Yeah, he's a year younger than me, but it doesnt matter, since he's funny and sweet and an all around great guy. The problem is that one of my best friends, Anna, likes him too. Really, really likes him. She has told us so many times that she likes him. I haven't told anyone, since i dont want to hurt her or make her mad at me that we like the same guy. Last night, we went ice skating and he was there with his friends, but we all hung out together. Neither of us could skate, so we held hands and skated around. We fell so much and he flirted wit me and hugged me too. I loved it so much. Anna wasn't there cuz she's on vacation, and I don't know wut to do. Should I tell her that I like him or not? If he would ask me out, I don't know wut I'd say. One part of me would say yes immediately, but the other part would feel so guitly. I dont know wut to do! Help me please!!

 

[StitchGirl88]

i think u should tell her that you like him but before you do say please don't get mad but i think i like the person you like too and explain it to her and hopefully she is understanding and she won't get mad!! hope this helps!

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

It is better to tell her then for her to find out from someone else. And you may wanna tell her before things get too far between you and the guy.

 

[rockinchica]

i think you should definitely tell her. she needs to know how you feel. she may have sneaking suspiscions anywayz. after you tell her let her know that you don't want to hurt her but you can't change how you feel about him. i wish you the best and hopefully everything will work itself out in the end...

 

[MinnieROXS]

i think u should tell her b/c i liked the same person my best friend liked and when i told her she was really excited that she wasn't the only one but if ur friend isn't like that i still think u should tell her cuz then u will get it off ur chest and maybe she willl be kelw wit it i wish u the best of luck

 

[disneyangel7488]

Like everyone else on this thread, I say you should definitly tell her. It is important for her to know that you like the same guy as her. If she finds out from someone else, she would get pretty upset and this could possibly ruin your friendship. But if you tell her now, she might be okay with it. Good luck and I hope this doesn't get between the you and your best friend!

 

[DisneyGirl421]

thank you all sooo much! I told Anna today and she was like OMG now we can talk about him all the time! She didnt really care...

but.. im sad now.. Bobby has a g/f now... boohoo....

 

[MinnieROXS]

thats so sad but u can still talk bout him wit ur friend beleive me my friends and i never stop talking bout guys even if they do have a gf cuz its still fun some times to make r selves fell better we try to find some thing wrong wit the girl he is goin out wit and then find something that we think he would like better about orselves but u can do wut u like