Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr my husband!!!!

[angel659]

you looked such a happy couple at the meet last year and I hope you still are.
Kirst

Thanks for your kind words Kirsty. We are not on the verge of break up though. He is a wonderful husband and does help more than most men I know. He is excellent with kids. Just his recent behaviour has been most upsetting, especially when I am so tired. Last thing I think about is being happy. Honestly we are no way at that stage. That would never happen to us. As much as I am annoyed with him right now we are still in love.

He is a great husband. I was just wondering if I was over reacting with a few comments he made. Also if I moan to friends to family they will just instantly say it was my fault. All because I was hot headed teenager and people think that I havent grown up to a calm adult.

 

[Goofysmate]

hope all works out soon

 

[CustardTart]

...As much as I am annoyed with him right now we are still in love...

Of course - if you didn't love him, you wouldn't care about his comments. I know I'm the same with my almost-perfect DH...

I'm sure you guys just need a break - your schedule must be absolutely exhausting! I'm sorry I won't get to meet you in WDW but I wish you and your family a magical, wonderful holiday...

 

[irongirlof12]

sounds like you are wonderwoman most of the time. Hope you sort it out. maybe a little sneaky 'out of the budget' retail therapy is in order

remember 'men are from mars and women are from venus'!

 

[fizz13]

Hi hun,
I think you are probably both at the end of your rope, and we all know how pathetic men can be when they are ill I especially know about men interpreting every comment or look as you having the hump when they are just so irritable themselves that they go looking for trouble
I think you two really really need this holiday to have some time out and i know you're gonna have a fantastic time. To be honest i don't know how you do as much as you do with your crazy hours, your have always had my upmost respect
You did make me laugh about the "budget" thing as i know Bruce himself admits he can get a bit carried away with this, try and count to ten, breathe, demand more sleep time and i know this is gonna blow over, and yes Bruce absolutely adores you, and yes I can vouch that they are totally in love
Gillsfan if you read this, yep she had every right to be upset and strung out, she has been working so hard so cut her some slack honey,
Hope you have a more peaceful evening tonight. Sending massive as always. Keep the countdown in sight, we're so close

 

[angel659]

Hi hun,
I think you are probably both at the end of your rope, and we all know how pathetic men can be when they are ill I especially know about men interpreting every comment or look as you having the hump when they are just so irritable themselves that they go looking for trouble
I think you two really really need this holiday to have some time out and i know you're gonna have a fantastic time. To be honest i don't know how you do as much as you do with your crazy hours, your have always had my upmost respect
You did make me laugh about the "budget" thing as i know Bruce himself admits he can get a bit carried away with this, try and count to ten, breathe, demand more sleep time and i know this is gonna blow over, and yes Bruce absolutely adores you, and yes I can vouch that they are totally in love
Gillsfan if you read this, yep she had every right to be upset and strung out, she has been working so hard so cut her some slack honey,
Hope you have a more peaceful evening tonight. Sending massive as always. Keep the countdown in sight, we're so close

Hi hun,

Thanks for your support hun its really appreciated. Last night we had a chat after the england game and Bruce is having a few problems at work. None of it effects him directly, but the atmosphere apparently is awful. He is literally sitting at his desk with no one to talk too, because of whats been going on. His colleagues have been taking liberty's lately and the boss noticed. All things are changing there and not for the best. He wants another job. He apologised for being insensitive and he didnt mean to. He does appreciate what I do and everything. After a long chat we both were fine. He was just taking it out on me and wasnt really realising that he was. Hopefully after he shared his problems at work his problems are halved too.

You are so right Claire we soooo needing this holiday. By the sound of things Bruce really needs it. Its not long now thank goodness 15 days to go. I cant wait. Really looking forward to having a lapu lapu and looking round the hotels with you. Will be great to see all the decs. Cant wait now

 

[wils]

Glad you got to talk about it! Hope the next 15 days pass quickly as it sounds like you both need a break!

 

[DisneyJo]

Glad you've pretty much got it sorted and hope you'll have a lovely holiday

BTW I'm about to write about meeting you and Claire in my TR

 

[angel659]

Glad you've pretty much got it sorted and hope you'll have a lovely holiday

BTW I'm about to write about meeting you and Claire in my TR

Hiya

Thats nice, I was rather worse for wear that day. Dinner at Melrose didnt agree with Carly and I at all. We felt soooo ill. Its a shame that we didnt stop properly and have a chat.

Its all sorted now. Needed to vent some steam and this is why I love my dis family soooo much. You can always gaurentee to get support. I didnt realise how much stress poor dh was under and how down he is. After talking to each other.

Hope we get to meet each other again soon. Will have to arrange another dis meet in the South East at some point.

 

[DisneyJo]

Definitely Michelle seeing that we're only 20 mins away