mousescrapper
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good wrap up to the trip and your lessons learned we always come home w/ those huh

moving forward to some new schedule/positive behavior renforcements for Nov...I am

I really need to stress for all and mostly Nathan/Bekah that this is a family trip...not a Nathan trip or a Bekah trip...so we really keep to that ideal for the most part. hence my TOP 5 lists and everyone aware of what things we will TRY to do and then there is always time for repeats, it's a seperate build in. Like your boys my kids don't all like the same things either, I can see how sperating into the groups of two works easy for you, but I can also see how it takes away from family time...
Amy I don't need to tell you "our" lives are full of schedules and things for this kid and then this kid and so on...Disney is a respite for us and them and a very needed together time for my crew

I like Heidi's idea and you can use it almost like your own FP system where they are allowed so many repeats in a single day even

the reward system for food or souvie is great and I felt very in control of the souvie spending last Nov for us w/ my souvie reward coupons that were given out.
Like Jess I use the food reward system for Nathan often (at home)...it is a motivator for him, he likes food

And of course I'd be happy to help brainstorm ideas and designs for any type of guidebook to help the boys have a successful trip and make Mom/Dad happy too

J~