That's a very broad brush and bordering ignorant. My DH is Active Duty and I am a SAHM. We DO NOT qualify (not even close) for EIC and we too pay "thousands upon thousands of dollars in federal income tax". No, our medical care isn't "free". It is an insurance system that we pay into every month, and while generally it is a good system, it absolutely has it's own set of negative attributes.
And while, yes, I agree that political posturing isn't going to help anyone at this stage of the game, it is disheartening to hear that young families, some who are separated by half of the globe, will have trouble buying groceries next week if those on Capitol Hill don't get their collective heads out of their patooties. We will scrambling to help provide for young families in our squadron who will need help to pay the mortgage or rent if this doesn't come to a conclusion soon. Not to mention the 100 or so "non-essential" civilian workers in the squadron who won't even get back pay during a furlough.