Gotta stop reading the dis

[alizesmom]

Because it is full of the most judgmental, entitled people ever. Just reading it I have learned that my kids:
are not entitled to go to school with "normal kids" because they will drag them down.
Should wait in bus lines like everyone else and if there are people who are sitting where wheelchairs go then too bad, they should just wait for the next bus (or the one after that)
Get front of the line acess all of the time (too bad no one told us)

I have learned that I:
Use a wheelchair as a battering ram to get where I want to go
Run over people all of the time while they are innocently just walking
Feel entitled to get extras
Should use politically correct terms which change on a daily basis
Shouldn't mind that people find it humorous to joke about disabilities

My kids' crimes are that 6yo DDs birth mom chose to drink and use drugs the whole bloody pregnancy and 5yo DSs parents beat the snot out of him at 2 months of age.

I fully expect to be flamed, shut down (maybe even see the thread zapped) and possibly banned but some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

 

[happygirl]

Because it is full of the most judgmental, entitled people ever. Just reading it I have learned that my kids:
are not entitled to go to school with "normal kids" because they will drag them down.
Should wait in bus lines like everyone else and if there are people who are sitting where wheelchairs go then too bad, they should just wait for the next bus (or the one after that)
Get front of the line acess all of the time (too bad no one told us)

I have learned that I:
Use a wheelchair as a battering ram to get where I want to go
Run over people all of the time while they are innocently just walking
Feel entitled to get extras
Should use politically correct terms which change on a daily basis
Shouldn't mind that people find it humorous to joke about disabilities



My kids' crimes are that 6yo DDs birth mom chose to drink and use drugs the whole bloody pregnancy and 5yo DSs parents beat the snot out of him at 2 months of age.

I fully expect to be flamed, shut down (maybe even see the thread zapped) and possibly banned but some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

Good Morning to you as well!!!!!

 

[Tinker'n'Fun]

If a post upsets you, close it. There are tons of posts that are just fine and actually extremely helpful. There is also more people than I can count who are willing to help. IF you choose to read the drama threads than that is what happens, but it is not just the "Dis" it is the way the world is. The "Dis" is a tiny slice of the pie.

 

[Rafiki31]

Apparently I must have missed the thread that prompted this response. But my advice would be this:

two wrongs do not make a right, if someone treats you badly do not continue the cycle by treating other people badly, if you are hurt, do not hurt in response. Don't spread more hate or negativity.

I am sorry you were targeted or offended here on the Dis. I promise there are a lot of us here that are still normal people and not part of the hating, bashing, and picking on others that you are referring to. I do see it, but choose not to let a few bad apples spoil the bunch. You are welcome to share a bus with me!

 

[Malibustyle23]

I'm sorry you're having a horrible time/day/experience. I hope it gets better. Please don't lose hope for all of mankind due to a select few ignorant ones.

 

[Pakey]

You can choose to let it get to you or you can choose to step away. I believe life is way too short to get my knickers in a twist over posts on a message board. I save my angst for the real issues in my life.

 

[It'sOffToDisneyWeGo]

Op I feel the same way you do. The only thing that keeps me coming back is that there are some really nice, sweet, and wonderful people here too. I try to focus on the good ones.

 

[rgf207]

This is going to get good

*grabs a front row seat*

 

[ckay87]

Hard to know where to start with this - so many issues. And I'm sure you're aware that it's all a case-by-case kind of thing. I get this gist of what you're saying. I peruse the forums just about every day thinking "well, I sure am a screwup aren't I?" Don't sweat it.

 

[Uncle Remus]

If a post upsets you, close it. There are tons of posts that are just fine and actually extremely helpful. There is also more people than I can count who are willing to help. IF you choose to read the drama threads than that is what happens, but it is not just the "Dis" it is the way the world is. The "Dis" is a tiny slice of the pie.

Except there are times when one feels compelled to reply especially in blatant cases where ignorance or hate should not be ignored.

 

[wvjules]

So is this a YAGE?

 

[Jennasis]

]Because it is full of the most judgmental, entitled people ever.[/B] Just reading it I have learned that my kids:
are not entitled to go to school with "normal kids" because they will drag them down.
Should wait in bus lines like everyone else and if there are people who are sitting where wheelchairs go then too bad, they should just wait for the next bus (or the one after that)
Get front of the line acess all of the time (too bad no one told us)

I have learned that I:
Use a wheelchair as a battering ram to get where I want to go
Run over people all of the time while they are innocently just walking
Feel entitled to get extras
Should use politically correct terms which change on a daily basis
Shouldn't mind that people find it humorous to joke about disabilities

My kids' crimes are that 6yo DDs birth mom chose to drink and use drugs the whole bloody pregnancy and 5yo DSs parents beat the snot out of him at 2 months of age.

I fully expect to be flamed, shut down (maybe even see the thread zapped) and possibly banned but some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

That's a two way street there. Here you are sitting in judgment (and name calling) and condemning the entire DIS community. And why does anyone need to take your personal needs/life into consideration if you aren't willing to do the same?

Just take care of yourself and your own and don't worry about everyone else, because you can't possibly know what anyone else's life is like and what their problems are (and vice versa) or expect them to make special considerations for you.

 

[LuvsDragonflies]

Because it is full of the most judgmental, entitled people ever. Just reading it I have learned that my kids:
are not entitled to go to school with "normal kids" because they will drag them down.
Should wait in bus lines like everyone else and if there are people who are sitting where wheelchairs go then too bad, they should just wait for the next bus (or the one after that)
Get front of the line acess all of the time (too bad no one told us)

I have learned that I:
Use a wheelchair as a battering ram to get where I want to go
Run over people all of the time while they are innocently just walking
Feel entitled to get extras
Should use politically correct terms which change on a daily basis
Shouldn't mind that people find it humorous to joke about disabilities

My kids' crimes are that 6yo DDs birth mom chose to drink and use drugs the whole bloody pregnancy and 5yo DSs parents beat the snot out of him at 2 months of age.

I fully expect to be flamed, shut down (maybe even see the thread zapped) and possibly banned but some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

:

If I'm guilty of any of the above, I'll take my spanking because this is spot on. If it poofs it will just be confirmation that the inmates are running the asylum because "some" of the people here are just plain nasty 99% of the time and I swear they just pick a side to be obnoxious about it.

 

[Magic Mom]

That's a two way street there. Here you are sitting in judgment (and name calling) and condemning the entire DIS community. And why does anyone need to take your personal needs/life into consideration if you aren't willing to do the same?

Just take care of yourself and your own and don't worry about everyone else, because you can't possibly know what anyone else's life is like and what their problems are (and vice versa) or expect them to make special considerations for you.

 

[2Pirates2Princesses]

If a post upsets you, close it. There are tons of posts that are just fine and actually extremely helpful. There is also more people than I can count who are willing to help. IF you choose to read the drama threads than that is what happens, but it is not just the "Dis" it is the way the world is. The "Dis" is a tiny slice of the pie.

. I agree with this post. This is what I am learning too. I love the resourceful nature of these boards, it was really priceless when planning our first WDW trip and it helps me keep up with what is going on with all things Disney; but there are times when I have to plead with myself to "not go there" with certain threads or posts that get me worked up or annoyed. It isn't worth it. It is a message board and people are going to say what they want because they are typing on a computer. I also have a special needs child and I also understand the frustration you may feel when people come across as insensitive and judgemental. I have learned to just put my tough skin on and remember that those individuals don't know what it is like to go through what we go through or live through our lives.

 

[SaraJayne]

Because it is full of the most judgmental, entitled people ever. Just reading it I have learned that my kids:
are not entitled to go to school with "normal kids" because they will drag them down.
Should wait in bus lines like everyone else and if there are people who are sitting where wheelchairs go then too bad, they should just wait for the next bus (or the one after that)
Get front of the line acess all of the time (too bad no one told us)

I have learned that I:
Use a wheelchair as a battering ram to get where I want to go
Run over people all of the time while they are innocently just walking
Feel entitled to get extras
Should use politically correct terms which change on a daily basis
Shouldn't mind that people find it humorous to joke about disabilities

My kids' crimes are that 6yo DDs birth mom chose to drink and use drugs the whole bloody pregnancy and 5yo DSs parents beat the snot out of him at 2 months of age.

I fully expect to be flamed, shut down (maybe even see the thread zapped) and possibly banned but some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

Have a little extra something with your Cheerios this morning?

 

[furb & dez]

Wait, wait... you forgot your ball!!

 

[SaraJayne]

You can choose to let it get to you or you can choose to step away. I believe life is way too short to get my knickers in a twist over posts on a message board. I save my angst for the real issues in my life.

I agree.

 

[Tinker'n'Fun]

Except there are times when one feels compelled to reply especially in blatant cases where ignorance or hate should not be ignored.

Okay, I'll admit it. I don't understand your reply. Can you either PM me or put it in terms for a perimenopausal mind that is on overdrive could understand.. Thanks.

 

[tlbwriter]

some of you are self-centered children who won't think beyond your own little world.

I think that's true of a certain percentage of any group.