When you're traveling with a white-knuckle flyer, front of the plane is better. In his view it's quieter and he doesn't hear all the plane movement noise (flaps in out, raising/lowering, etc.), He (and the rest of us) also want off the plane as quickly as possible!
He prefers an aisle seat while the two kids want windows. When we have the 2-3-2 or 2-5-2 configuration on planes, we are all in heaven! We choose two aisles with seats A&B, very close to the front. This is exactly what we did this time around (except we actually have my nephew too, so my husband was across the aisle from us--which was fine with him! We all had our lovely windows for looking out, he was away from the plane noise and had his aisle seat--there would be no one crawling over any of us!
Delta (not Song), in it's wisdom took a nearly full plane and we are now crammed on a 3-3 configuration where economy starts at row 18 rather than 10. If that's not bad enough, the computer moved us the number of rows back that our original flight held 3 seats in (13) and we got row 31--right at the back of the wings! Since there are only 43 rows, well--you can do the math--we're very inconveniently placed for all of our idea of a nice flight. We've spoken to Delta and their reps tell us they can't change the seat assignments made by the computer. Further, I can't change them in my itinerary because there are no seats! I didn't get these seats on "sale" either.
I don't think I've ever been on a plane that had 17 rows of first class??? Can someone enlighten me on that--is it truly first class or just a section of first class and "business" class they haven't opened up?