Going into panic mode......

[TinkBride]

Wedding is in two months and we have had a lot of changes to our schedule and they way our wedding day will go, I have had to book extra transportation, makes changes to our limo schedule, and fit an extra stop at the Poly for pics of me and DF. Which has also made me have to change our reservation time at mangino's. So, bascially most everything I have planned in the past three or four months has went out the window in about a three hour time frame!

Now i am at work, making lists and freaking about things coming together! I am getting nervous, not about the wedding, but everything surrounding the wedding. There is so much to so and so little time!

And I am getting frustrated because DF keeps saying," It will be fine honey". And all i can think is, well how do you know, I have planned this entire thing and you just nod and smile.

And I keep thinking I have to be extra careful to keep track of everything, because this is more than just a vacation where you pack and go, there is so much more involved with this trip and i am afraid I can't keep it straight.

Ohhh.....and the best part, my planner won't e-mail me back or return my calls......which just adds to the stress!

AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!

Am I crazy? Or is this normal?

 

[princessdisneybelle]

Ok try and breath. I would call and email again. If you hear nothing talk to a supervisor. You don't need this addes stress. Then honestly I would take things step by step and only change what you have to. Your DF is right "things will be fine". We brides just tend to overstress I think. to you!

 

[Malibelle]

Tinkbride-

I know how you feel. Our wedding just a few days after yours. I am trying not to panic but sometimes I get overwhelmed because I have planned everything myself, made, purchased and scheduled. New things are popping up everyday like the buying our wedding rings, logistics, who has to be where, table seating, how to get our stuff from here to there..etc. Both our mothers still have to get a dress! I have a lot to do like putting my welcome bags together, printing up the intinerary for the bags, labeling..etc.
My DF says what are you worrying about but he has no idea!

I am sure it will all come together. Everyday I do a little at a time. I am sure once it gets here you wont care and what happens, happens. Just have a good time. That is what I am going to do.

 

[JoD]

TinkBride,
What you are feeling is normal, you just want everything to be perfect.
I went thru the same things and 1 month before our Wedding I decided to just go with it. I made the decision to just enjoy every part of the planning and our Wedding Day and just let what was to be be and all that mattered was I was going to marry the man of my dreams. Someone looked me in the eyes and said whatever you do stay in the moment and just listen to every word of your ceremony because it is over so fast and all you have left are the memories and feeling of that day. I took this advise to heart and did exactly that, I can remember everything my DH said to me that day and every moment he and I had together and that's all that mattered to me. My advise to you is don't get stressed over the small stuff, Disney does the most incredible job and they make sure everything is perfect so let them help you.
Enjoy the most wonderful day of your life with the man you love and that's all that matters later in life.
When I think of my Wedding Day now (3 yrs later) all I think about is how much love I felt for my DH and I never knew I could love him even more than I already did and how much fun he and I had together with our friends and family.

 

[Maggimus]

If this is crazy- then i was crazy right there along with you at this point. I started freaking out. You are good to go- everything will work out

 

[michloo]

Tink,

My wedding is the day after yours so I know exactly how you feel. And I think its completely normal at this point. I have trouble sleeping beacause I run lists in my head of things that need to be taken care of. To cope, I take a deep breath write everything down or get it saved to the computer. I try to do a little bit each day. When the day arrives there will be few glithes or it will go as planned. Either way its going to be the best day ever.

So take it easy, your planner may be at someone elses affair or working on one of your questions. IF they have not responded in a reasonable amount of time, then call and ask for a supervisor.

Good luck!!

 

[dannirose]

You sound extremely sane to me Tink! Here's some pixie dust for a little smoother sailing

 

[TinkBride]

Thank you everyone!