It is a bummer, but I cannot say I'm surprised. From the first morning I called, they were hesitant about it saying how they were trying to get away from large parties due to being burned in the past. I still think DL handles large groupings poorly. WDW does a much better job with that. But oh well, it is what it is.
I don't think doing another CC type reservation will work. We had a hard enough time booking CC. It took like 9 of us, ALL calling at exactly 60 days out, and even then we are still spread out over the span of an hour, kwim?
I have never been to the BBQ. I'd do it, but some people said they didn't like it, so I wasn't sure what to think.

Plus we are taking a chance with the weather. But the price isn't bad. $19.99.
And he did say they should have no problem booking us all there, seating us together or close together at tables of 8.
I don't know. We need some opinions here ladies......