Girls and Boys!

[Princess_Jessie959]

My Bf Story!!!!


4 months ago I had met this guy on the internet and we started talking back and forth eventually we were a couple. Then i finally met him and turned out he was deffinatly NOT what I expected!!!!! after this had happened the same day i had to go get my taxes done..I'm 21.....we had sat down with the lady in charge of helping and my mom and dad were still furious with what had just happened with meeting that boy...so my mom and this lady started talking and the lady said that she has a son about 25 and he's single and very handsome and he's a true redneck...Well i love rednecks....needless to say he called me 3 days later cuz i had given the lady my number for him to call....so he called we decided to meet 1 day , he was very sweet, nice to talk to...we went to the movies that weekend and we ended up together....and we're together for 2 months now and I love him very much!!!!! Love does work in mysterious ways!!!!!!!!

ps:don't try meeting a guy on the internet

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Aww thats cute!!!

 

[Babyjustrun]

I've come to the conclusion that his family does not take their religion very seriously.
There's flaws.
His parents are divorced, which they can only do in his religion if they cheat, or abuse their spouse. Neither which happened that I can believe, especially with the cheating, that'd mean sex out of wedlock, which would mean they'd be kicked out.
Anyhoo, that's my theory.
So I'm just gonna let things go on and take their course, if it works out yay, if it doesn't oh well.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Good Luck with that.
JW scare me. I have family who is, and they....I dont want to talk about it. Its not that I dont like their religion, I just dont like what its done to them.
:/

 

[Damhsa04]

My best friend is "going out" with the guy I really just don't like. And I texted my other friend last night and vented to him because he doesn't like him either.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Good Luck with that.
JW scare me. I have family who is, and they....I dont want to talk about it. Its not that I dont like their religion, I just dont like what its done to them.
:/

Mm.
I've spent the past few days doing a lot of reading. I do not believe a word they preach, and everything they're described as is basically nothing like him.
And he's said before that he's not supposed to hang out with people who are worldly people outside of school...
But I don't knowwww.
Baah.
-.-

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

You poor little sheep xD (sorry..couldnt help myself)

Ive decided.
To tell him.
Its going to take guts, and courage...(wait..isnt that the same thing?) anyway thats my decision. I dont know when, but hopefully the next time Im talking to him alone (which wont be too far away...). I will finally be able to tell him the ENTIRE story.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

You poor little sheep xD (sorry..couldnt help myself)

Ive decided.
To tell him.
Its going to take guts, and courage...(wait..isnt that the same thing?) anyway thats my decision. I dont know when, but hopefully the next time Im talking to him alone (which wont be too far away...). I will finally be able to tell him the ENTIRE story.

you crack me up every time I read something you post
but.. I've never been to shy to tell someone how i feel.
I'm very open and quite blunt about things, (as im told)
So I cant say I see where your coming from being nervous.
But its better to know then to wait and wonder your entire life.

 

[Babyjustrun]

Yep, it sucks being a goat.
There's a group on Facebook that says 'I've never had sex with a goat', and I'm under the impression it means 'non-believer', and not the literal form of a goat. A bunch of my friends joined it, assuming it really meant a goat..

I hope you tell him, and I hope things go well. I'll keep my fingers crossed.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

you crack me up every time I read something you post
but.. I've never been to shy to tell someone how i feel.
I'm very open and quite blunt about things, (as im told)
So I cant say I see where your coming from being nervous.
But its better to know then to wait and wonder your entire life.

Thanks, that gave me the warm fuzzies, Ive always wanted to make someone laugh!

Its not that Im nervous. Its just anytime somethings happened, Ive always told him that I dont like him, and I am a hypocrite for liking him in the first place. I told him I could never lie to him, and I did (just about this)

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Thanks, that gave me the warm fuzzies, Ive always wanted to make someone laugh!

Its not that Im nervous. Its just anytime somethings happened, Ive always told him that I dont like him, and I am a hypocrite for liking him in the first place. I told him I could never lie to him, and I did (just about this)

Yeah well maybe you lied for the better. If that makes sense, but only you can tell if its time to open up to him. I mean theres only two things that can happen, the good or the bad. Would you rather cry over what could come with the truth and smile over a lie?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Well, I know he wouldnt mind this particular lie.
Its not one that really matters, I just...something tells me I should tell him, just because.
The more and more I think about it, the more and more I realize why I SHOULDNT tell him, because I dont want to go out with him, and its just pointless.
I think im just going to continue to send him hints.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

Well, I know he wouldnt mind this particular lie.
Its not one that really matters, I just...something tells me I should tell him, just because.
The more and more I think about it, the more and more I realize why I SHOULDNT tell him, because I dont want to go out with him, and its just pointless.
I think im just going to continue to send him hints.

Ohh. I actually see where your coming from now. The guy I'm talking to, I like him and told him. But neither of us wanna date each other. It may seem harsh but not really we just don't wanna date yet. but we are "talking" Buttttt... I say keep giving him little hints, then when you do decide to tell him, he most likely would have already figured it out.

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Yeah.
I dont even want to be "talking" I mean... I dont want to lose him.
If that makes sense.

 

[cindys_castle2011]

So all you want to be is friends, but you kinda like him, but want to remain just friends for now, but with giving him the knowledge you like him?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

Yes.
I dont want us to fall apart on accident.
I like the way things are right now. Being really good friends. I wont see him next year, so the year after that we wont have bad memories, just "Hey" "Hey!! Oh my gosh" "I remember you...I hope" "oh shut up ;D"

Instead of "Oh yeah, we were friends...but..then...things happened."

 

[cindys_castle2011]

oh well in that case, I would wait. Maybe then that next year you will want to date him and be old enough to, if you aren't already. No sense in taking the chance of ruining something good, will you be able to talk over the summer?

 

[Ms.Squeakers]

I guess so, we always text, and on rare occasions Ill call, or ask him to call.
My text box is FILLED with his texts, and his with mine.

My worried point is, people always say that they are going to keep in touch, but then never do. Since its a guy, going off to a bigger/better school, I believe thats going to happen, no matter how hard I try..

 

[cindys_castle2011]

yeah, my best friend and I still talk but not as much as we use to since she started going to a bigger school. But hopefully if you text everyday and talk a lot and are obviously good friends, it might not happen. I would plan something like every other weekend during the summer.

 

[jbcheerchick93]

i just told the guy that i like that i like him. now im not sure that it was such a good idea. i dont mind that he knows, i just hate it when things change between people because of something that someone says. i really really hope that this doesnt happen. he said that it may happen with other guys but that he promises that it wont with him. tis just that he always is doing little things that are super sweet and cutesy, if you know what i mean.

aughh!!!!!!!

now i dont know what to think, maybe i'll dream about it and it will all become clear.....