Ok, Ladies. Here is the first of several updates. I'll try to get the rest out tomorrow for your perusal
1) Dining Assignments
After turning in my planning guide, I asked Meredith if I could request seating assignments for dinner. She said that once Disney had my final party size (38 guests), they would get back to her with the types of tables needed. I was then notified that our group would be split into two server groups. Each group would have one 4 top and two 8 tops with 1 vacant seat. Timmy and I fiddled around with potential seatings, and finally decided just to mix everyone up. I'm sure people will switch spots over the course of the cruise anyways, so why not put them with people they haven't really gotten the chance to know very well. Hopefully this turns out to be a good plan!
2) DCL Wedding Itinerary
I received my Preliminary DCL Event Itinerary on September 13th. Meredith told me to review this carefully (there were some typos in it), write in any changes needed, and fax back with payment for the additional guest fees. The approximate schedule for all the wedding events are as follows:
Embarkation Day: Meet & Greet with Groups Manager from 2:30-3:00
Nassau: Free
Castaway Cay:
-8-9 am: Hair appointments for myself and my mother
I spoke to Meredith about the possibility of getting hair appointments for my other two bridesmaids, and she recommended speaking to the Onboard Coordinator and Salon when on the ship. If we can't work something out with the salon, they are planning to do their own hair.
-10-11 am: Ceremony
-11 am -12 pm: Cake and Champagne Celebration
On my planning guide, I included approximate numbers of how many guests I thought would prefer a specific beverage (champagne vs sparkling cider). I guess DCL completely overlooked this, because on the itinerary, 5 bottles of champagne were listed and only 1 bottle of cider. Rather than take any of the champagne away, as some of our guests love their bubbles (me included

), I decided to add 2 extra bottles of cider and just pay the difference. Hopefully that'll be enough for everyone to have a decent sized glass in celebration.
3) Bridal Party
-1 Maid of Honor, Bride's sister
-1 Bridesmaid, Bride's best friend from college
-3 House Party Members: 2 of the groom's sisters and 1 of the Bride's friends from vet school
-1 Best Man, Groom's best friend
-1 Groomsman, Groom's friend from college
-2 Ushers: Groom's brothers in law
For those not familiar with a House Party, there's an excellent explanation here:
http://bellsandbouquets.blogspot.com/2010/01/whats-house-party-and-what-do-they-wear.html It's a Southern traditional, and the members are basically the female equivalent of ushers. I wanted to keep my bridal party small due to the size of the wedding, but their were people I still wanted to recognize. So my mom suggested a House Party, and I thought it was a great idea. Members get a special role in the wedding (eg. doing a reading in the ceremony), receive a gift, and take part in photos, but don't have to worry about buying a specific dress.
4) Wedding Attire Updates
We're still ironing out a few details, but here's some of the wedding attire.
Timmy will be wearing a grey J Crew suit
Bowtie, suspenders, and shoes TBD
Here's a photo of my first dress fitting.
It went really well! The dress mostly fit--just has to be taken in at the top, hemmed at the bottom, and cups sewn into the bust. Please ignore the atrocious face I'm making in the photo. It was not a good photo day for me, haha. My veil will be that color (I wanted a matching blush veil, but everyone told me the cream was gorgeous with the light blush color), but much shorter! Just past fingertip length. My mom tried to talk me into a cathedral length veil cause she loved how it cascaded behind the dress, until I gave her a polite "are you crazy" look. I cannot imagine trying to run around the ship, let alone walk in the sand, with a cathedral length veil. No M'am was my response

I still need to work out jewelry...
My sister also got her maid of honor dress in. It's a cornflower blue, and I think looks really cute on her. We've got to do a few minor alterations, but otherwise it seems to work well. I really love the white sandals she found as they have a detail that echoes the neckline of the dress
The Ringbearer attire is being made by a lady on Etsy. It's going to be a pair of grey knickers, grey suspenders, white collared shirt, blue bowtie, and newsboy hat.
Vendor: finehandmadeclothing
Think it'll be really cute

I've got to decide on shoes still... The Ringbearer is Timmy's nephew, Reuben. He's only 1.5, so in lieu of trying to get him to hold a pillow, I came across these flags on Etsy (think it'll be easier to hold)
Vendor: Joyfuljoyful
What do you all think thus far? Am I on the right track? I don't have photos of the other bridesmaid dress yet or the groomsmen attire.
Hope everyone is having a good night!!!
