GAC question for those whos disablility isnt visable

For what it's worth, I have taken my autistic son to WDW about 18 times, and never had anyone say a thing to us.

You're very lucky then. I have taken my DD12 who is also autistic and have gotten a couple of comments. Stupid ones at that.. but people are what they are.... I've been told how lucky i am that my daughter has autism and I can get on the rides quicker. Or that we're probably faking to get the card, *** obviously there is nothing wrong.

I just smile and go on my way.. but it hurts inside.. and as my daughter is getting older and smarter, the comments bother her.... I would love to spend the day without the GAC, but I would never do Disney then... 3 or 4 hours and we are out of there... too much stimulation... and we're back into the pool:goodvibes for relaxation
 
I am in a similar situation. I am in CHF and have cardiomyopathy. I take meds, *try* to eat right & exercise routinely, etc. I do not look sick, I just look like a 30-something, pudgy lady. However I get fatigued easily and have difficulty breathing and get sob without a/c or upon exertion. Let me tell you doing laundry and especially bending over is a pain!! :laundy:

I was going to try to get a GAC and see if that would help me, in my situation. I have decided that I am just going to rent a wheelchair. Not necessarily due to problems getting a GAC card but I don't know if one would really help me. I am pretty sure I will be fine in the pavillions and ride lines but getting around the parks is going to be the part that will tire me the most. I wasn't sure I was going to get a w/c at first because I didn't want to take it from someone who "really" needed it but I might need it and dont want my trip ruined because I pass out from exhaustion. just my 2 cents

I hear ya, I've gone 2x with a chair. It is helpful, for sure. However for this trip I'm not planning on one, bc keeping up with a 4 yr old running around and pushing an infant in a stroller is too much in a chair, for me. If my health isn't well when the trip rolls around, we'll reschedule.

To the OP-I hope you can get past the worry and fully enjoy the trip! Its sad what people can do. But I really think that those experiences are far and few between. For the 2 or 3 bad experiences I've had, there's a dozen kind acts I can think of-and I force myself to think of them.
 
Its been 2 years since we used them. From reading the information on allears
http://allears.net/pl/listen.htm
http://allears.net/pl/handheld.htm

for these items - you go to the Guest Service in each park - put a deposit down, and you get that back when you return the device. Our experience 2 years ago was that the 2nd one was heavy and it wasnt always in synch - so we ended up carrying that - more information was gathered with the other senses (sight) and mom telling and pointing!

Reflective Captioning
http://allears.net/pl/reflect.htm
is what we continue to use! We do not get a GAC - but we know which attractions have them, and again, our first experience was some CM's wasnt aware of the device - so when checking in we told the CM we needed reflective captioning - we were then asked to stand and wait with the wheelchair entrance...

then when we were in the theatre (usually 5 min or less) we looked for where the backwards (usually red) was located (on the right side or on the left, or in the middle) Now, if the CM's were informed, they would ask us to sit in a certain area - and then they go to get the mirror -

it works the same as our tv closed captioning - its very helpful for when Donald Duck is speaking in Philharmagic!!

wonderful info! thank you!
 
Wow, I was just thinking of starting a thread about this very topic.
yes, I've had bad experiences. :sad2:
I have cystic fibrosis, and unless I'm on IV medication with a chair, I don't look sick from the outside all the time. Its a blessing and a curse.
I get dehydrated extremely fast, even in 15-20 mins. I can walk fine, unless I'm on IVs. I get frequent coughing attacks, need medicine doses at different intervals which take up several hours per day, and I can't stand still for long or even shorter periods. The max time I can be in disney is 4 hours. So with little kids thats not alot of time! But I need to get back to my room to do my meds and physical therapy. We manage and still have a fantastic time.
I get a letter each year from my docs to give to guest relations at disney. One year, I had an awful experience that left me in tears and actually left me upset for hours after I had gotten in the park. I gave the cm my letter and asked for my gac.
She looked me up and down, said 'you don't look disabled to me', and said I couldn't have the gac. I calmly told her to read the letter, and said I get a gac every year. She rolled her eyes and said fine but only gave it to me for 2 people though I have a child. So that means that my hubby, me, and our daughter wouldn't be able to be together at all on anything!!!! I was so upset. (bc I know she could put more than 2 people down! plus she saw my baby-was I expected to go alone on each ride for our trip? or carry my baby alone on each ride?)
I protested of course. She leaned close to the glass and said 'i know what you're doing. be happy i gave you this card for 2 people. this is for people with REAL DISABILITIES or terminally ill children, not adults.' I was SHOCKED. I asked her 'what are you saying?!?' She replied 'well, whats your disability?' (though I already gave her the letter!) I firmly told her that according to the disabilities act she had no right to ask me that, and I needed the manager. When I said the words disabilities act she seemed to get scared and said forget it, and was about to just hand me the card for 3 people. But I insisted on seeing a manager. The manager came out, asked me what I wanted, read my letter and gave me a gac for 6 people.
I was crying at that point, I think just from embarassment, and tiredness. I should have told the manager word for word everything that cast member did, but I didn't. I just left. It was awful and it ruined our day.
There have been several attractions where the gac just doesn't help. I think at times its been legitimate and I know there's times its been the cm at the front of the ride at that particular time. But 90% of the time we have good experiences.
There's only once I can think of where a fellow traveler at a ride made comments to us. But to be honest, I couldn't care less. I've gotten thick skin from women at grocery stores over the years who've called me a liar for using my disabled parking tag. :( This is pretty common with people that have Cf. Its sad and a big frustration.
We're going to dw again in the fall, this time with our newest little one who'll be 6 months old at the time. We're soooo excited, but I'm also nervous about this aspect. We haven't traveled with 2 kids yet and I don't want to get sick or exhausted but also want to give the kids a wonderful time. I really don't want to be embarrassed again like that. Especially now that my daughter is older and understands more.

oh my gosh!!! I am so sorry you had to go through that!!! Its so sad to hear that people treat others that way.. how dare she accuse you of lying and be so rude!!! Maybe when you go this time, you can right from the start request a manager to speak with due to your terrible experience in the past witha regular CM?? good luck.. i hope it all goes smoothly for you and your family and you have a wonderful trip!
 

Wow, I was just thinking of starting a thread about this very topic.
yes, I've had bad experiences. :sad2:
I have cystic fibrosis, and unless I'm on IV medication with a chair, I don't look sick from the outside all the time. Its a blessing and a curse.
I get dehydrated extremely fast, even in 15-20 mins. I can walk fine, unless I'm on IVs. I get frequent coughing attacks, need medicine doses at different intervals which take up several hours per day, and I can't stand still for long or even shorter periods. The max time I can be in disney is 4 hours. So with little kids thats not alot of time! But I need to get back to my room to do my meds and physical therapy. We manage and still have a fantastic time.
I get a letter each year from my docs to give to guest relations at disney. One year, I had an awful experience that left me in tears and actually left me upset for hours after I had gotten in the park. I gave the cm my letter and asked for my gac.
She looked me up and down, said 'you don't look disabled to me', and said I couldn't have the gac. I calmly told her to read the letter, and said I get a gac every year. She rolled her eyes and said fine but only gave it to me for 2 people though I have a child. So that means that my hubby, me, and our daughter wouldn't be able to be together at all on anything!!!! I was so upset. (bc I know she could put more than 2 people down! plus she saw my baby-was I expected to go alone on each ride for our trip? or carry my baby alone on each ride?)
I protested of course. She leaned close to the glass and said 'i know what you're doing. be happy i gave you this card for 2 people. this is for people with REAL DISABILITIES or terminally ill children, not adults.' I was SHOCKED. I asked her 'what are you saying?!?' She replied 'well, whats your disability?' (though I already gave her the letter!) I firmly told her that according to the disabilities act she had no right to ask me that, and I needed the manager. When I said the words disabilities act she seemed to get scared and said forget it, and was about to just hand me the card for 3 people. But I insisted on seeing a manager. The manager came out, asked me what I wanted, read my letter and gave me a gac for 6 people.
I was crying at that point, I think just from embarassment, and tiredness. I should have told the manager word for word everything that cast member did, but I didn't. I just left. It was awful and it ruined our day.
There have been several attractions where the gac just doesn't help. I think at times its been legitimate and I know there's times its been the cm at the front of the ride at that particular time. But 90% of the time we have good experiences.
There's only once I can think of where a fellow traveler at a ride made comments to us. But to be honest, I couldn't care less. I've gotten thick skin from women at grocery stores over the years who've called me a liar for using my disabled parking tag. :( This is pretty common with people that have Cf. Its sad and a big frustration.
We're going to dw again in the fall, this time with our newest little one who'll be 6 months old at the time. We're soooo excited, but I'm also nervous about this aspect. We haven't traveled with 2 kids yet and I don't want to get sick or exhausted but also want to give the kids a wonderful time. I really don't want to be embarrassed again like that. Especially now that my daughter is older and understands more.
The CM was rude and I have some suggestions for next time. It sounds to me like there was some misunderstanding on both sides that escalated the situation.

1) I would save the old GAC, show that and be prepared to explain your needs ( not your diagnosis) and since a GAC is not meant to shorten the wait in line, not mentioning your limited time in the parks. Basically, what do you need. The CMs do have right under the ADA to ask what your needs are, which I think she was trying to ask, by asking what your disability was. When you referred her back to the letter, she mistakenly took that as an attempt to 'dodge' the question and started down the line of not believing you.
I am not saying this was correct on her part, but I have witnessed similar things where the guest was not able to answer any questions about what they needed. It sounds like the CM jumped over that point without trying to clarify what she was asking. Again, not agreeing with what she did, but trying to explain why she may have made that jump.

2) A letter is not necessary, but guests can bring one if thmey want. In most cases, the CMs don't want to look at it and showing a letter right away can sometimes complicate things more than be helpful.
If you bring a letter from the doctor, it should state your needs clearly, realizing that "avoiding waits in line" is not an accommodation. A doctor letter that says, "My patient has xxxxxyyyyzzz condition and can't wait in line" can be a red flag to CMs since dishonest people can make their own 'MD letterhead' and write up a letter. Again, if the CM made this 'leap' in your case, she was obviously wrong and rude.
While we have been waiting in line, I have seen people who brought a very long and complicated letter from their doctor and insisted the CM read it. I am not saying that yours fit this description - just that people who are bringing letters need to be aware that the CMs are not medically trained and much of the 'jargon' used in some medical letters may as well say xxxxxyyyyyzzz because they can't understand it anyway.
I am a nurse and have taken care of patients with CF, so I could probably make some pretty good guesses about accommodations someone with CF might need. The first CM might not have ever heard of CF before and the manager, besides being more experienced in general, might have had more awareness of CF and what you needed.

And, one final thing you may not have thought about for your medications and treatments. Each park has a First Aid station where equipment can be stored and private rooms with cots where treatments can be done. I know some people with children and teens with CF who have stored things like a VEST at First Aid and gone there for their PT and VEST treatments. Not sue how feasible this might be for you, but it is an option that might help you to be in the parks without worrying about getting back to your room so quickly.
The diagnosis is not necessary and
 
I've been told how lucky i am that my daughter has autism and I can get on the rides quicker.

This just kills me. If someone had said something so thoughtless to me about my son (who is also autistic) I'm not sure I could have held my tongue. Yeah, your child is going to grow up, go to college, get a good job, get married and have children, while mine may not be able to do any of those things and I have to worry about finding someone to take care of him after I die. We're so *lucky* he's autistic and can get on rides faster. /rant

Sorry, that just really hit a nerve.
 
This just kills me. If someone had said something so thoughtless to me about my son (who is also autistic) I'm not sure I could have held my tongue. Yeah, your child is going to grow up, go to college, get a good job, get married and have children, while mine may not be able to do any of those things and I have to worry about finding someone to take care of him after I die. We're so *lucky* he's autistic and can get on rides faster. /rant

Sorry, that just really hit a nerve.

It hits a nerve every time I think of that day. I really wish that some people would spend a day in our shoes, to see how lucky we are. And don't get me wrong, my daughter is my life, I wouldn't trade even a hair on her head... she is so special and sweet, it kills me to see things in her that others don't want to see, the love , the tenderness and gentleness... and the kids that won;'t be her friend, because she's "weird".. and then I get the how lucky I am line... ughhhh
 
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1) I would save the old GAC,
The CMs do have right under the ADA to ask what your needs are, which I think she was trying to ask, by asking what your disability was.

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If you bring a letter from the doctor, it should state your needs clearly, realizing that "avoiding waits in line" is not an accommodation.
And, one final thing you may not have thought about for your medications and treatments. Each park has a First Aid station where equipment can be stored and private rooms with cots where treatments can be done. I know some people with children and teens with CF who have stored things like a VEST at First Aid and gone there for their PT and VEST treatments.

Thanks! I had no idea about the FA rooms. Thats awesome.

I always save my old GACs. Funny you said that a letter is not necessary. My docs always send a letter to any patient that goes to Disney. (thats alot of patients) The first time I told her I was going I had no notion of needing a GAC and letter, or anything. My doctor said I'm sending you with a letter to get a GAC to hopefully shorten your waits in lines to prevent you from getting exhausted. I said oh, no thanks. The thought of it was embarassing to me at the time, to admit. She said no, that if I didn't get one, I "couldn't" go to Disney. Having experience now, I'm surprised that letters from a doctor aren't mandatory since 'joe blow' can theoretically walk up and say they have anything.

Now I don't go into my Cf, I go into my needs. I've been told by CMs since that a request for shorter wait times based on medical needs can be requested-BUT NOT guaranteed based on many factors. I won't state what my letter says. But one thing it does say now is that because I have young children to please allow if possible an adult helper to accompany me on rides with my young children. That means that I'd need a pass for 4 people (myself, husband or helper, DD and DS).
Now what the CM from 'the bad year' did do was deny for NO legitimate reason allowing me to have a helper. From what I've been told they can give you a GAC for up to 6, typically. And yes you are right there was miscommunication on both sides. However, sometimes people are having bad days. Sometimes you get the new girl, or the inexperienced person. Sometimes you just get someone that forgets for the moment that they are dealing with customers, not inmates. ;)
 
Thanks! I had no idea about the FA rooms. Thats awesome.

I always save my old GACs. Funny you said that a letter is not necessary. My docs always send a letter to any patient that goes to Disney. (thats alot of patients) The first time I told her I was going I had no notion of needing a GAC and letter, or anything. My doctor said I'm sending you with a letter to get a GAC to hopefully shorten your waits in lines to prevent you from getting exhausted. I said oh, no thanks. The thought of it was embarassing to me at the time, to admit. She said no, that if I didn't get one, I "couldn't" go to Disney. Having experience now, I'm surprised that letters from a doctor aren't mandatory since 'joe blow' can theoretically walk up and say they have anything.

Now I don't go into my Cf, I go into my needs. I've been told by CMs since that a request for shorter wait times based on medical needs can be requested-BUT NOT guaranteed based on many factors. I won't state what my letter says. But one thing it does say now is that because I have young children to please allow if possible an adult helper to accompany me on rides with my young children. That means that I'd need a pass for 4 people (myself, husband or helper, DD and DS).
Now what the CM from 'the bad year' did do was deny for NO legitimate reason allowing me to have a helper. From what I've been told they can give you a GAC for up to 6, typically. And yes you are right there was miscommunication on both sides. However, sometimes people are having bad days. Sometimes you get the new girl, or the inexperienced person. Sometimes you just get someone that forgets for the moment that they are dealing with customers, not inmates. ;)
If anyone reading this wants more information about GACs, post 6 of the disABILITIES FAQs thread was written by me, but reviewed by a number of experienced Guest Relations CMs.

Many doctors write letters for their patients, but Disney does not want to see them for a number of reasons:
  • - one is that ADA says you can't require proof of disability as a condition of providing accommodation ( there are exceptions for things like handicapped parking permits, which do require proof and discounts, which are allowed to require proof).
  • - another is that many doctors write letters that are not helpful in deciding what is needed for the reasons I already mentioned.
  • - doctors often promise things that are not available, like no wait for any attractions and shortening waits in line. I have seen people arguing because they had a prescription from their doctor that said they needed to get on attractions without waiting. It is true that 'Front of the Line' access is only available for kids on Wish trips ( which is apparently what she thought you were asking for and said, but in a rude way).
  • - the ADA does allow for asking the nature of the disability ( I think that is the exact words) because people with the same diagnosis can have very different disabilities or needs associated with that diagnosis.
  • - people do write their own letters, using forms they find on the Internet.

The more complicated it gets, the more likely the CM won't 'get' it. They normally ask how many are in your party when issuing the GAC and the usual number for a GAC is up to 6 (5 plus the person with a disability). Getting a GAC issued for more than 6 requires an explanation, but is even do- able with good reason ( for example, 2 parents with 5 small kids; or we have gotten one for 7 with our immediate family of 5 plus my elderly mother and mother in law).
So, it doesn't make sense for the CM to hassle you about making the card out for only 2 instead of 4.
I wonder if the CM thought you were expecting WDW to provide a helper for you ( which might be a reasonable assumption if a single adult with one or two children came in with a letter that said they needed a helper in lines). If that was her assumption, I can understand why she would only give you a GAC for 2, although she should have verified what you meant instead of making an assumption.

I agree that sometimes a CM is having a bad day or is inexperienced. They also sometimes get abused by the guests ( which is no reason to be rude to the next guest).
In the case of the woman I saw with the prescription, when the CM asked what her disability/needs were, the woman said "Listen, my doctor wrote this prescription and you need to do what it says." The CM said she needed to know a little more about the woman's needs and the woman started swearing at her loudly ( this was a MK, with many people with children present).

On our last trip, I went into Guest Relations with my daughter (who has multiple special needs) to renew her GAC. The woman ahead of me told e CM that she had come to "get one of those cards so I don't have to wait. I need it for 10 people."
The CM said that there is not a card like that, but if the woman would explain her disability, she would see what type of assistance WDW could provide. At that point, the woman said she did not have a disability, but her nephew was with her and had CP and since he could not get out of his wheelchair he "deserved a pass like that."(the woman was alone at Guest Relations).
The CM said that there were quite a few attractions that could be enjoyed in a wheelchair and gave the woman some guide maps for guests with disabilities. As she was pointing out the features of the mapped, including the 'mobility entrances' and that most attractions had Mainstream Lines, the woman interrupted her.
She said that if the CM would not give her a card for no waits, it would ruin their trip. She said her nephew would have to be waiting long periods in line for his cousins to ride while he could not ride, so they needed a card so the cousins could ride right away. The CM said that if the nephew needed a GAC, he would have to be present to request it since she would need to find out his needs and issue one in his name. She also explained it could only be used on attractions he was actually riding because the card was to meet his needs.
The CM really kept her cool, but each thing the CM said was met by yells and pounding on the desk by the woman, then she started swearing, finally threw a bunch of guide maps for guests with disabilities at the CM and ran out.
That CM went to take a break, which was probably a good thing because I'm not sure after that how she would have been able to be civil to the next guest.

My DD and I had no trouble getting a GAC and when I came out, my husband asked if I had seen the angry woman. He said, she came out and had a group waiting for her, said "It didn't work" and they all left. He said there was no one with a wheelchair in their group.

These were 2 examples, but I have seen similar scenarios played out quite often ( I don't camp out at Guest Relations, but we go to WDW twice a year and usually stop at Guest Relations once to get DD's GAC renewed plus one or 2 times for otHer things).

So, unfortunately, bad things do happen in Guest Relations sometimes and sometimes innocent guests get treated in ways they should not because CMs have been abused by other guests.
 
Sue,
Thank you for sharing that experience, sometimes we get into our world, and cant imagine a world where someone would steal (every time I'm asked at a check out for some level of new protection, I may stare blankly, and then *duh, I guess I dont think like a thief - - same with the GAC and with this world wide web - I just cant imagine the thieves out there - thank you for reminding me!)

Scarlett my BFF had CF - my heart is with you - she was such a strong, brave fighter - always in my heart ( we met in jr high - in the 70's!)

as Sue states over and over again, the CM's want to know what are needs are - for me, with my dd, its easy, but its because I'm prepared, because of Sue - not because I want to bypass anything - I do believe TGM and now easywdw.com help me make a plan - I've only needed that GAC 2 times - and the 2 times I've used it, I had tears of "thank God" in my eyes - I dont want to use it, my DD doesnt want to use it - but medically when necessary - its nice as we go about our touring, to have that "mulligan" (golf reference to a "do over"!) "just in case"

and yet, that's what is different - we arent trying to "cheat" the system, and we forget that there are those somewhere out there that will - and do... we are too busy taking care of "our" family - we dont care about "them" - we just want to move on our vacation!!
 
We used the GAC for Stroller as a Wheelchair with DD our last two trips. She has a seizure disorders and anxiety issues so it has been a lifesaver.

I was nervous at first, you know, about the kind of comments we would get. But I have to say it has been fabulous. DD is able to feel comfortable and still experience everything.

There have been times that we get looks from people, but we've learned to just let that roll off our backs, it's just people who don't understand your situation.

So please if you need the GAC, by all means get one and have a great time at WDW.
 
I would rent a chair from an off-site company and just bring it with you. This way you have a place to sit whenever you need it. If you want to walk, you can use it to carry other things. Don't worry about what others think. Do what you need to do to be able to enjoy your vacation, not just survive it.

That was my dh's thoughts too! My disability is invisable also. I would NOT have been able to spend time w/ my kids at WDW w/o the GAC.
 
I am taking the strategy from a PP. I want to teach my kids that not ALL disabilities are seen. I WILL say it loudly in the future as a teaching moment to my kids.
 













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