
I'm stuck in that "conquer mode"( like you called it) and really wishing I could talk myself out of it.We go yearly (DVC), and take it slow in the parks, so we have a "have fuj with the family" mindset more than a "conquer the park at all costs" mindset.
We kinda keep priority rankings in mind, and it's no big deal to miss a low priority attraction. In a few years, a missed attraction becomes more of a, let's do ... this year since it's been a while.
Some of our lower ones are large time commitments like Ellen, Animal Kingdom train.. for a while CoP was a low priority. I guess with summer trips we enjoy that air-conditioned break more.
How do you define short and frequent? If that worked for you, I'd give it a shot, however, right now our circumstances allow a visit about every 9-12mos. Each trip lasting 7-9 days on average. Maybe cutting down to every 6 mos for 4 day trips only will do the trick?We don't need to do every theme park during every trip. I think one of the advantages of doing short, frequent trips is that you feel freer to only focus on what really appeals to you at that time, instead of needing to do it all. We know we'll be coming back. This can result in a more enjoyable trip. We also don't need to do every fireworks show. We typically do one fireworks show per trip now.
Bryanb are your trips more adult oriented? Sounds very relaxing and really enjoyable, although I think it will be a while before I'll get to tour like that.Yes, I now feel comfortable not going hard from morning til closing. I can enjoy the parks in a relaxed way. Like @Keels, I'm also perfectly happy grabbing a drink and just hanging out in the atmosphere, whether it's at Illuminations or on the Boardwalk or admiring nightfall at Animal Kingdom. The theme parks are much less about checking off rides and more about the theme.
Unless I have FP+s for MK, I'm not stepping foot in there. I've done everything I need to do in "Strollerville" and I'm pretty OK with that. If I do have FP+s (and it's usually just one, maybe two)
We now tend to go once or twice a year (see my signature) for 4-5 nights per trip. We haven't really planned it that way- that's just how it's worked out with scheduling and the longing to return to WDW and such. I almost never plan trips out more than 4 months in advance. One thing that helps with short trips is flying in during the morning on arrival day, and not flying out until the late afternoon on departure day. That cushions your trip with packing/unpacking time outside of your main vacation days, which helps the trip not feel hurried.How do you define short and frequent? If that worked for you, I'd give it a shot, however, right now our circumstances allow a visit about every 9-12mos. Each trip lasting 7-9 days on average. Maybe cutting down to every 6 mos for 4 day trips only will do the trick?