Thank you all for making me feel like I wasn't being paranoid lol. I just called and some how my email address was removed from my res. Bc I have my flights tied in they can't add the email to my res again but they were able to enter it back into the system. And the lovely cm is mailing me my confirmation via snail mail

she also confirmed that the fd was there and dining was attached (apparently I wasn't the only person who didn't have it on the auto confirmation or Disney website confirmation). I'm all good now