For those of you who have been my friends

[honeywolf7]

I just want to say goodbye. I will PM some of you my personal email address, but I will not be coming back to the boards. I will miss you very much, but because of some people I just don't feel comfortable here anymore. I am very sorry that the trivia is going to come to an end and I hope that someone will take it over for me.
(((HUGS)))
Becki

 

[dianeschlicht]

So sorry to hear this, Becki! I didn't know you were having problems here. ((((((hugs))))))

 

[debknight]

Dear Becki,

I'm so sorry to hear that someone may have offended you. I don't know what hapened, but please accept apologies.

 

[honeywolf7]

Thanks, Diane and Deb.

 

[AirForceRocks]

And here I thought my career counseling business was going so well.....

 

[ryanpatricksmom]

Well you know AFR, the road to hell is paved with good intentions!

 

[emmy]

more drama?

 

[Grog]

Sorry you feel you have to go, but you know what is best for you. Even though I didn't answer many, I will miss the trivia. take care and hopefully you will come back here eventually.

 

[JerseyJanice]

I am sorry that your feelings are hurt, Becki. Truly.

But I gotta say it--what did you expect?

You had a thread going here the other day that got way out of hand, so it was locked. So what did you do minutes later? Start another thread asking about the LPN profession.

Did you honestly think the new thread wasn't going to take the same course as the first one?

I said it in the LPN thread, and I'll say it here. You clearly have a lot of problems in your life that needed to be resolved. I sincerely do not think you're going to find the answers you need here.

 

[tedsmom]

I get the impression from your threads that you are a young girl who has gotten yourself into a predicament, which is too bad. I don't think anyone has been mean to you, but they have been telling you things that you don't want to hear. When that happens, it is generally easier to walk away, even if it isn't better.

Good luck to you and especially to your children.

 

[becka]

Becki, sometimes it is the friends who care about you the most who are willing to tell you the truth even if it hurts you to hear it.

 

[tc]

I'm sorry to see you go, Becki. I don't know what happened. I've not been very active the past month, but I am sorry you are hurting. You gave me some great support a few months back, and I will never forget that. I will miss you.

 

[Disney845]

Honeywolf...

I am sorry that you will be leaving. I didn't always get to it in time, but I enjoyed answering your trivia questions. Take care.

 

[Serena]

I'm sorry Becki.

 

[Robinrs]

Becki:

You know how I feel...

Take some time and remember what I told you. This place can be a nice place if you know how to play the game.

--Robinrs

 

[robinb]

I'm sorry to see you go Becki. I hope that things work out for you. Good luck to you and your children.

Some of the advise that has been given to you in the last few months has been blunt, but not mean-spirted. Perhaps it would have been best not to share details with the group if you did not want unsolicited advice since we're such a nosey, opinionated bunch .

{{hugs}}

 

[Baboo]

Becki, I'm sorry to see you go. I'll miss your trivia and seeing you on the riddle thread in the morning. Take care of yourself, and I hope that things work out for you and your kids.

 

[sorcerormickey]

Bye, Honeywolf!
I'm sorry to see anyone feel they need to leave the DIS.

 

[snoopy]

In the past, I've felt you've been treated unfairly at times, but in this particular case I feel most people on that thread were very courageous to have stuck their neck out and gave you real, solid advice. Not everyone would do that, its a lot easier to say prayers and pixie dust and that be the end of it.

Sorry you feel that you have to leave, Becki, but in may be for the best that you take a little break. Your problems are pretty complex, but they can be solved. People gave you a good game plan on how to get your children back, good career advice, you yourself said your mother would help you no matter what. I tend to think you really aren't ready to make the changes that are necessary to get your kids back. Which is o.k., and I think we all could respect it if you admitted you weren't in a position to make the changes from an emotional standpoint. Instead, I think you are blaming the people on the DIS, when all most really did was respond to your situation and try to give you practical and useful advice.

Good luck to you, and especially your children. I hope the right thing is done by them.

 

[honeywolf7]

Snoopy, the majority were definitely helpful. However, when it came to saying that I shouldn't get a college degree or that that didn't make sense, that's when I felt like it got into attacks...It doesn't matter now, though. I am ready to make changes, but I don't think I really have to give up everything except the kids in order to do right by the kids.