Wow, I've really enjoyed this thread! Especially as brand new DVC owners who bought in on our first ever trip to Disney world! We are still very much Disney novices, so reading the pros and cons on this board has been really informative!
For us, there are two huge reasons we bought and the reasons I am still happy we bought
4). My kids are 6 and 3 and go to bed at 8:30 p.m. After we put the kids to sleep, my wife and I share a bottle of wine, watch a movie, or relax on the patio. How do I do that in a 400 sq ft hotel room?
This is huge for us as well. My children are 17 months old and four years old. I am 26 and we certainly expect to have many more young ones on the way. There is nothing I hate more than having to share a bedroom with my 17 month old. He will not go to sleep if I am in the room, period. We have to keep the lights off, no talking, no t.v. time, nothing. He's in bed by seven o'clock every night, my four year old by seven thirty. I like being able to talk to my husband and cuddle up and read a book with the light and knowing that I am not interfering with my children sleeping. It is not relaxing to share a room...even when we vacation elsewhere I always try to stay someplace with a seperate bedroom and living room and then we end up pulling out the living room couch and putting the kids in the bedroom.
Reason number two: Kitchen. My son has allergies and more food sensitivities than I can count. We do not eat processed foods as a rule, and I need to be very careful that my son's food was not prepared with or near any milk products or wheat products, and has no food dyes. Eating out requires careful preplanning, scouting out of a restaurant, scouring the menu, and then I have to ultimately trust a bunch of strangers to be telling me the truth when they say milk products have not touched the surface where my son's food was prepared, when they are ultimately not vested in the outcome if he ends up having a massive allergic reaction. Eating out with my son is not fun, or enjoyable, it is stressful and I constantly worry. I dislike having to wait on someone else to bring me a drink or my food to come when I am hungry right NOW. I love to cook, and I love knowing that I can make any meal for my family at a fraction of the cost of eating out, can have it taste better, be more nutritious, and I have the peace of mind knowing exactly what is in our food....dye free, preservative free, hormone free, pesticide free. Eating out holds absolutely no appeal to me whatsoever, especially when I see the prices restaurants charge!!!
Reason three: space. I *like* the home away from home feel. I love spending a few hours to set up my pots and pans, settle all our stuff in, and enjoy the luxury of hanging around. I would much, much rather have a living room and seperate bedrooms...the feeling of space is very relaxing to me.
I might be very weird, LOL. But I prefer to do laundry and clean my own space. Laundry takes five seconds to throw in the washer and fifteen minutes to fold. Sure, these are things I do at home every day, but I don't feel the need to escape them. What makes me so excited about vacation is not the idea that I don't have to do laundry or make my bed or cook...it's the fact that I get to spend 7-10 days straight waking up to my husband and knowing I don't have to send him off to work. It's knowing that he can entertain the children so I can cook dinner without a baby in my arms. It's knowing that we get to do things all day together as a family. That my husband gets to share in the joy of watching our children discover something new and wondrous and splash in the pool or see Mickey Mouse.
I can certainly see why it wouldn't hold an appeal for people, but for us, hands down the best investment in vacations we could make.