For anyone who thinks that they can use this board to fight a personal battle...

[CathyCanada]

THINK AGAIN! If you have a problem with someone, keep it to PM or email, we don't need it, or want it here.

Cathy

 

[browneyes]

I'm so glad I'm not a mod.

, CC.

 

[JerseyJanice]

I'm sorry, Cathy.

Never again. I just lost it.

 

[Serena]

me too.

CC, you are a great one.

 

[Chattyaholic]

if PM'ing them isn't a possible option, and they've hidden their e-mail address? I just responded to someone on the cruise line board about comments they made that I disagreed with, but respectfully, wasn't nasty or anything like that so hope that was all right. But I'm wondering, do you have to have a certain number of posts before being able to PM that poster? Or can a person choose NOT to be PM'ed at all?

 

[JerseyJanice]

Chatty, that's true. Someone can choose not to receive PM's.

In case like yours, you can try dealing with the other poster nicely, or if they're really out of line, you can report the post to a mod.

 

[browneyes]

I know we can turn off our pm's if we choose to under our user cp. People that try to pm you when you've got it turned off will receive a message that the dis'er isn't using the pm system.

Good question about when you can pm. I assume you can pm from the get-go though.

 

[AF Brenda]

I agree too Cathy.

I made a simple observation based on posts on the thread, that observation was somehow construed as a personal attack, and it went downhill from there.

PMs can be a good way to handle it, assuming the person doesn't lock out their PMs in order to hide.

 

[CathyCanada]

Brenda, if a person chooses to "hide" that is STILL not our problem. This is not high school, people, conduct yourselves like adults please!
CC

 

[Chattyaholic]

I couldn't even try to PM the person, as it wasn't an option in that line under her post. The "e-mail" option was there, but when I clicked on it a notice came up saying "sorry...the poster has opted not to receive e-mails...blah...blah...blah. She had only posted 22 times and was a "welcomed guest" so maybe you have to get to "DIS Vet" status before you can be PM'd? I don't know....*shrugs shoulders*

 

[Steve H.]

 

[CathyCanada]

LOL Chip, friendly "wars" are ok, but the boxing ring is around the corner, others can go and duke it out there!
CC

 

[Pam]

I am just bummed out that once again I am in the dark here....... I always miss out on the action - darn bathroom breaks!! This is what happens when you drink multiple cans of Pepsi and DIS - the excitement always kicks in when I'm in my other "office".

Pam

 

[Poohbear123]

I am in the DARK as usual too. I hope it had nothing to do with me.

 

[Disney Doll]

HUH???? Once again, I am "Clueless in Connecticut".

 

[minniepumpernickel]

It seems like a very, very sad situation. I would honestly like to see it all end, and have everyone be friends!

 

[Blondie]

Since I was in the ER the better part of the morning and early afternoon, looks like I missed it again.

Whatever happened Janice, you know you've got a friend in me.

 

[crazyme5kids]

Thank you!!!!!! Lately I've been feeling like I was on the debate boards.

 

[jldriscoll]

I'm dying of curiousity!!!

What is it they say about curiousity and the cat?!?!?!?

{{hugs}} the the frustrated parties!! And to Cathy and the MODS!!!!

 

[Princess_Aurora]

We need to have a clueless club because I sure am clueless all the time. I never know what's going on here???

I guess we all need our own little "Clueless" tags