For any brides living in North Jersey looking for a Bridal Salon

Prinny27

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Sorry this is going to be so long, but I wanted to inform anyone here that could possibly be looking for a bridal salon in Northern NJ. I have had so many problems with Demetrios Bridal Salon in the Macy's at Willowbrook Mall. This has been going on since last July and my wedding is now 9 days away and the issues with my bridesmaids' dresses are still not being solved. Anyway, I am going to paste an email I just sent to Demetrios Bride corporate so that you can see and judge for yourself whether or not you want to deal with this particular store.

Hello,

I am not sure who to send this email to, but I would appreciate you passing it on to the correct department.

Last July I ordered five bridesmaids dresses from your bridal salon at the Macy’s in Willowbrook Mall, Wayne, NJ. All of the girls went in, got measured, paid for their dresses, and were told that the dresses wouldn’t be in until March. March came and finally the dresses were here – the first girl went in to make sure her dress fit and to see what alterations needed to be made. I was with her, and we were told that her name was not in the computer and they never ordered a dress for her. After 30 minutes of arguing, your sales associates finally located her dress under my (the bride) name. She tried on the dress and was surprised to see it was about three sizes too large for her – she was very obviously never measured correctly. We were told that the seamstress had left for the day and that we could come back any time the store was open until 8:00 pm for her to have her dress altered. Imagine our surprise, when, a few days later (a Sunday) we went back at lunchtime and were told they only do alterations by appointment and never on Sundays, and they don’t know where we got our information from. The woman who had originally given us the information told us she was the manager at that store, though I did not get her name. There were three of us there when we were told we could come back anytime we wanted, so I doubt all three of us heard the wrong information.

Flash forward to a week and a half later when this same bridesmaid goes for her appointment to be altered. She was told that because there was so much work to be done on it, it would cost her $125 (MORE than the cost of the dress) to be done and that it would take a month for it to be ready – putting us at exactly ONE WEEK before my wedding. Now, it was totally unfair to expect this girl to shell out more money on alterations than she spent on the dress considering it was your sales associate’s fault the wrong size was ordered in the first place. However, she paid the money because she didn’t know where else to get the dress altered.

After that, I had all the bridesmaids go immediately to this store to try on their dresses, and discovered that two of the four left had dresses that were ordered too small for them. When they told the women working at your store about this, they were told there was nothing the store could do for them. After a few more minutes of insisting they be taken care of, the manager, Michelle, instructed one that if in a few weeks the dress still felt too small, they would take it in free of charge. So this bridesmaid went back several weeks later to have her dress let out and they charged her $25 to take the shoulders in because the seamstress said this girl’s shoulders are too small. Now, correct me if I’m wrong, but is it not her job to fit the dress to each woman’s body? She also informed this girl that she could not let it out any more than it already is and that the bridesmaid will have to lose a few pounds. Totally unacceptable – this is her job to make a dress fit, and your store’s mistake for ordering the wrong size in the first place.

Today the first bridesmaid I wrote about called the store to see if her dress was in and was yelled at for calling before it was her ‘time to pick up the dress.’ However, it turned out that her dress was in fact ready and she went in to pick it up. She says she was rushed out of the store and not offered to try it on to make sure everything fit. She took the dress home and tried it on first thing, and realized that after spending $125 on the alterations, the dress was falling off of her. She was in hysterics as my wedding is now NINE days away and her dress does not fit. I stepped in at that point and called the store myself to let them know all of the mistakes they have made and what they have put my girls and I through these past months. The woman that answered the phone cut me off mid-sentence and told me I would have to speak to a manager. After being on hold for the manager for five minutes I was put on the line with a woman named Michelle. She was absolutely rude and seemed as if she didn’t care what the problem was and had no interest in fixing it, not to mention that she was clueless about everything I asked her. At first she STILL had no record of this bridesmaid being in the computer. When I told her it could be under my name she said, ‘Oh yes, there you go, that’s the fifth dress.’ After I explained to her that I was unhappy and this customer service was completely unacceptable she had nothing to say and put me on hold twice – finally letting me know that the dress she had given the first bridesmaid actually belonged to the second bridesmaid I mentioned. When I asked why she or one of her associates couldn’t read or be attentive enough to realize the mistake and that the two names are completely different, she had no answer for me and sat in silence for 2 minutes before telling me that if the bridesmaid wanted she could come back in and exchange the dress.

Now, I understand that these are only bridesmaid dresses and not a bridal gown, and that bridal gowns are your big ticket items, but I believe that no matter what the customer is ordering from you, they should be treated the same as every other customer. We have had nothing but problems with this store, and it seems to be staffed by incompetent, careless, rude people (including the manager) who choose not to fix their mistakes.

I don’t know if there is anything you can do to help my girls out for the exorbitant amount of time and money they have spent in this shop, but I thought at the very least you should be made aware of what horrible service is being provided in this shop and how terrible they are making your company look. I plan on telling everyone I know who is/will be shopping for bridal gowns, bridesmaid dresses, or formal dresses to stay out of this store due to the lack of competency and customer service. Furthermore, I will also post about this issue on wedding forums to make other brides aware of what they can expect from this store.

I hope that you will take appropriate measures to rectify this situation and the attitudes and knowledge of your staff at this particular store, so that maybe you can save other women the hassles that we all have been through.

Thank you for your time,
 
Sounds like a disaster. Why wasn't checking the other dresses to make sure they had the right one the FIRST thing they did when they saw the dress was three sizes too big? Seems like it makes sense to me! Could it be because they habitually order things way too big so you're forced to pay for costly alterations. Bridal ripoffs, grumble, grumble...

I think you've laid out a concise email. If I were you, I'd send a copy to the store.
 
Who knows why there is so much trouble. It just seems in dealing with the sales associates and the manager in the shop they don't care what the problem is and could care less if they get it fixed. I already sent a copy to the corporate center and posted it on several boards, but maybe I will send a copy to the store, although I'm sure it won't phase them! My fingers are crossed that this all gets worked out! :goodvibes
 
I tell you what, I've never had things get WORSE by letting the local store know I've gone above their heads to the Head Office... Definately let them know. They may start caring more if they know that you've gone over their heads.
 

What a nightmare! I am in Jersey too but I am buying my dresses in Florida. For my brother's wedding David's Bridal wanted me to order my dress a size bigger "in case I gained weight" I have been the same size since I was 15!!! I refused to let them order the larger size and I still had to get it taken in a little.

I hope you get this all worked out! You shouldn't be dealing with this stress so close to your wedding day!
 
I'm soo sorry to hear this happened to you! I can't imagine what I would have done. I probably would have lost it and I'd be in jail right now for assault. Thank you soo much for the heads up! I recently went to the Menlo Park mall to go with my sister to try on dresses at the Macy's Bridal there and their service was HORRIBLE!!!!!!! She was actually considering going to another Macy's Bridal because they are the only place in NJ that carries the dress she wanted to try on. I'll be sure to tell her we should just give up and go with the one we saw elsewhere. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!


-Lauren
 
I'm soo sorry to hear this happened to you! I can't imagine what I would have done. I probably would have lost it and I'd be in jail right now for assault. Thank you soo much for the heads up! I recently went to the Menlo Park mall to go with my sister to try on dresses at the Macy's Bridal there and their service was HORRIBLE!!!!!!! She was actually considering going to another Macy's Bridal because they are the only place in NJ that carries the dress she wanted to try on. I'll be sure to tell her we should just give up and go with the one we saw elsewhere. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!


-Lauren


My friend bought her gown at the Macy's Bridal in Menlo Park and also had a bad experience....they ordered the wrong dress altogether! :eek:
 
Thank you ladies for all of the support! I am going to forward this email shortly to the actual store so they can see what is being sent above their heads. And I also think I will write to the BBB about them, just so it's on file and maybe in the future it will help someone else out.

Stucas - DEFINITELY stay away from the Macy's Bridal at Willowbrook. You will be nothing but disappointed! If it helps at all, tell your sister to look at Arlene's Bridal in Bloomfield. It's where I got my gown, and the women there are smart, friendly and so on top of everything. They make you feel at home the second you walk into the store, and they will remember you and everything you talked about from visit to visit. I don't know if they would have the dress your sister wants, but it's worth it to call, and they may even be able to order it or find something like it for her. :goodvibes
 
Maybe it is just this particular Macy's bridal that is so terrible. I bought my dress at a Macy's in Northern Virginia and have had amazing service from them. I just want to be sure that the entire Demetrios bridal and Macy's companies aren't trashed because of one really bad store.
 
Maybe it is just this particular Macy's bridal that is so terrible. I bought my dress at a Macy's in Northern Virginia and have had amazing service from them. I just want to be sure that the entire Demetrios bridal and Macy's companies aren't trashed because of one really bad store.

No, I definitely don't think it's every store. You can't generalize like that. That's why I wanted girls who live up here in North Jersey to know about this particular store, not to stay away from all of them.
 
Just a thought... if your bridesmaids paid by credit card, they could bring the dresses back to the salon and do a chargeback, could they not?
I know that the store won't refund them, but if they dispute the charges they might come out ok...

Of course that means new dresses all around.

Not sure if that would work. Check with your cc company.
 
Hmmm... I wonder if that would work. Although, it's a little too close to the wedding to be worrying about picking out new dresses and all that.
 
I have heard wonderful things about Macy's Bridal in general, it's a shame that you happened to go to one with not-so-nice employees.

Are they fixing the dresses? With it being so close they better do something!
 
On a side note...have you tried calling the corportate offices? I know you sent the letter but calling might help too.
 
They fixed two of them, now we are waiting for the last girl to pick hers up tomorrow night to see if they did everything that needed to be done to her dress. My fingers are crossed, because this was one with the most work. If not, they'll have to fix it because she won't leave the store without a dress that fits correctly!
 
Wow, good luck. I'm sure it will all work out.

I'd be spitting bullets.
 












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