OK ... wait a second.
I'm the one who said that if he was your DDs favorite character, you should spell his name right. And I said that with a pretty prominent little smiling face and a joke about Flynn not being happy. Here's the exact quote:
First off, if he's your DD's favorite, you need to learn to spell his name right.
It's Flynn Rider (not Ryder). Flynn would NOT be happy!
When you responded to me about it, you didn't seem to take it badly at all. You thanked me for it and said that you had a friend with a son named Ryder and so you just typed that in. I certainly didn't think I bombarded you or came across as "how dare you" -- and you didn't seem to take it that way. If you're mad about someone else correcting you, fine, but I think I'm the only one who mentioned him being your daughter's favorite. So please don't make me the bad guy. (I really did mean it as a joke and you really did seem to take it that way.)