I know some poeple won't be comfortable discussing this and that's okay with me, but it'd be helpful to see where everyone is coming from on this issue. How are you paying for your wedding? Or, how did you pay for your wedding? How much was it? Here's some background on my situation. DF and I will be paying for our own wedding. His parents are not in the financial situation to contribute and my parents have done more than enough for me by financing my education (provate high school, college and now law school) so I understand totally that they should not have to pay for my wedding... so here we are, needing to pay on our own. We are looking into the Escape/Intimate package because we are from Connecticut and do no thave that many people who will be able to travel to FL for our wedding, to anyone who has had an intimate wedding how much was it, total? How did you pay for it. DF works and has a great job but we (well he) owns our home and has a mortage and other costs, meanwhile I am just a student with ZERO income... so I am trying to decide how to pay for all this... I need good estimates!!