Final Update - I Hope

[Wishing on a star]

Wow, that phone call was enlightening after all!!!

I am so glad that all seems to be working out!

 

[mickeysgal]

Seems very likely a case of her thinking it was something more than what he was thinking it was.

It took her a bit to get the message.

Best wishes to you - you're coping better with it than I think I would.

Just curious, did DH know you were listening to the conversation?

 

[Tiggerlover91]

Patti, YEA! So glad you got things worked out. Her reacting the way she did over the phone didn't surprise me one bit.
Happy to hear everything worked out and keep us posted if you feel the need to.

Blessings to you always!

 

[Planogirl]

She may have reacted a bit too strongly but it does sound like "THAT" wasn't going on at least. That's a good thing.

 

[Poohgirl]

Im glad things are going better. He sounds like he's trying to do whats right. Good luck.

 

[NMAmy]

I'm so happy to hear this, Patti. What a stressful weekend for you. I'm glad it's all worked out.

 

[sugarpie]

That's so great. It really sounds like he regrets hurting you. Hopefully your marriage will be even stronger now.

 

[budbeerlady]

Good to hear that things have ended the way they did. I dont think she will be talking about it around work if she is smart. People know your Dh is married and she will look like a wanna be home wrecker if she starts flapping her mouth or going into details.

 

[robinb]

I'm glad things are working out. {{hugs}}

 

[The Mystery Machine]

Very good to hear.

 

[Scraper]

I am sure it has been rough on you. You did the right thing by not letting it continue. Sounds like you know how to keep your marriage strong.

 

[OceanAnnie]

Good to hear that things have ended the way they did. I dont think she will be talking about it around work if she is smart. People know your Dh is married and she will look like a wanna be home wrecker if she starts flapping her mouth or going into details.

I agree. If she starts talking about it, it will only make her look very bad.

I'm so glad you guys are talking and working together on this. It's nice to hear a happy resolution to things. You did great!!

Now about that spa... Go out there and do something really nice for yourself!!

 

[Buckalew11]

 

[palmtreegirl]

 

[phisigprincess]

 

[CheshireVal]

Glad to hear everything is working itself out.

I highly doubt she'd be saying anything about it to a lot of people because really it's just embarrassing for her!

 

[EthansMom]

Patti, I'm happy things are working out well.

Add me to the list of folks who thinks that her response on the phone means she was interested in more than just friendship. A true friend would have said, "Well, I can see how your wife might have misconstrued some of the messages," and not gone on an expletive-laden tirade.

 

[diznygirl]

Sounds like you have indeed gotten things under control. Some men are just clueless when it comes to how things are percieved. I know cuz DH used to be one of them. He was just too friendly to girls he worked with, despite my warnings. It took him actually getting asked out (and me saying I told you so) before he smartened up!

Hopefully this is your DH's lightbulb moment!

Take care!

 

[dvcfamily41801]

So glad that everything is back on track for you and your DH.

 

[SwedishMeatball]

I am SO happy that your husband handled this to your satisfaction and hopefully put at ease some of those nagging doubts that you might otherwise have had. I'm glad that she didn't act all sweet and sympathetic. I think it shows the true nature of her character. I hope your husband reflects on her response and realizes how little respect she showed BOTH of you with her reaction. Definitely NOT someone who is a good friend.