When I was going into 8th grade, I hated the PS that I was at. My Mom talked to the head nun at our parish school about having me attend for 8th grade. She told my mother that she wouldn't accept me because I wouldn't be a TRUE graduate of that school if I only went there one year.
My Mom immediately transferred my brother and sister so they wouldn't have to go to the MS I was at. The MS had open classrooms. It was hard for me, an A student to concentrate with all of the extra noise. I could only imagine how hard it would have been for someone who was struggling.
So, fast forward A LOT of years. When our kids arrived, we enrolled them in Pre-K and Kindergarten at that school even though it was in a different town than ours. The quality of the education was still there, plus it was close to my parents' house so they could pick up the kids after school for me. The school closed when DS was entering 3rd grade and DD was entering 2nd.
No amount of fighting helped our cause. The bishop had already decided that our school was going to merge with another one. When the pastor explained to us how the collection plate was divied up, it was sickening. The church is a Basilica with a monestary on site. The monestary gets rent from the church and then is supported by the collection plate. Then the church gets its cut and has to send some to the diocese and vatican. The school got the scraps that were left over.
Know what the monestary did with their money? Put up statues on the grounds and built a new building for the priests. Yep, statues are definitely the way to get the church roster bigger. Definitely, we don't want to try to hook new Catholics by educating them in the ways of the church.
The diocese sent other pastors to run this debacle. They lied to us at every meeting. The whole truth came out after the school was closed. When we were told how much money we had to raise to keep the school open, we rose to the challenge and with 120 students, we raised $90,000 in one year. It was the amount they said that we needed to raise. They closed us anyway.
In the long run, my kids are now in PS. They will be until 6th and 7th grade. I don't want them in a MS that is attached to the HS. I don't have a good feeling about a 7th grader being in the same building with 12th graders. At that point, I will transfer them to our parish's school, assuming that it is still around. The current bishop was brought in to close schools and he's been doing a bang up job about it.