How frustrating to have different people telling you different things, not to mention the doctor who hasn't even seen you making a report.
I'm sorry that you have so many things going on at one time.

It's got to be scary and extremely stressful to be juggling so many things.
My older DS turned 25 last Saturday. I'm not old enough to have a 25 year old child.

LOL I hope that your DS has a great trip to Europe!
carrie, I am thinking of you today.

My sister and niece had bilateral mastectomies and I remember being there to help them afterwards; I hope that your surgery goes as well for you as possible. Please let us know how you are doing when you are able to do so.
Stephanie I am so sorry to hear about your physical problems, but especially about your son. How old is he? I think that I can understand how you feel because one of my sons struggles with severe depression, severe anxiety, etc, and has been hospitalized a couple of times for it. There has been progress, but it is long and slow. If you want to talk more about it, please feel free to send me an email or PM.
Oh you poor thing! I am sending all of the positive thoughts and wishes in the world.

I don't know what a CSF leak is, but I will go and look it up. Anything requiring surgery is bad.
As for me, I finally went to the doctor today for my back and hip pain from when I fell 2 1/2 weeks ago, because using the heating pad, ice, staying off my feet, taking muscle relaxers, etc, wasn't helping. He sent me for x-rays and I haven't heard back yet. He did give me a prescription for hydrocodone, but I can only take that when I know I won't have to be driving, so basically I'll be taking it at night/bedtime. The pain is getting worse. He wanted me to go for physical therapy or to see a chiropractor, but the thought of any extra movement right now is not an option.

I'm hoping that this is just muscle spasms, and that they will go away in time.
Last week the retina specialist said that my retina still looked good (attached) but that he saw a burst capillary in the back of my eye which is what's causing the blurriness. He said this will go away over the course of a few months, so that's good. The new floaters will always be there now though. I have to go back to him next week because they have to monitor the retina for 6-8 weeks after the PVD occurred.
Tonight my older son is having a sleep study because he has sleep apnea. I hope they can help him with a CPAP machine. Poor guy has very broken up sleep and he's always exhausted.

Gentle hugs

pixie dust

and lots of love sent out to all of you!