Actually in your original post you said that you weren't going to feed him your good Kosher dogs but cheap .59 Bar S instead. I also don't understand a Vegetarian who hates fruit and veggies. What does he eat?
Possibly it just goes against my Southern roots, as well. I don't try to impress my guests (not possible with my cooking skills anyway) but I do try to feed them well. Our most recent get together was grilled burgers (the same 93/7 that I serve my family), chips, salad, and the previously mentioned homemade ice cream. Our visits are also about spending time together which was why I chose a cookout so that I wouldn't be in the kitchen the whole time. The ice cream is a summer family tradition since my siblings and I remember our grandpa using a handcrank to make it for us when we were kids. We now try to make it for our kids (Thank goodness for electric freezers) at least once a summer.
Me feeding my brother seems a real concern today to a bunch of ya. mainly from a bunch who rarely post if ever what they fed there family today? So unless you want to send him food (he's single with a great job). He just doesn't find food important like my family. Maybe why he's 6' and 175lbsI should of posted and didn't catch it until someone pointed it out I should of said he rather not have fruit and veggies for a snack instead of writing he hates them.