Ok...
We are calling a Family meeting in our house for MONDAY NIGHT.
WE have These often so the kids are not pressed about it.
WE make most decisions as a family, which could be any where from, where to go for vacation, cost of electric bill, changing phone plans, you name it, we let the kids in on most decisions, they are not the final sayer on most but you get the idea......
ANY WAY, we are discussing some things .....BUT i am telling them that we will be going on vacation, WE meaning Mike and I. And that they will be staying at home.
NOW IS WHERE I NEED YOU.........
TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL WHAT WE WILL BE DOING WHILE WE ARE GONE....
I have always taught my children to "regret what you do, not what you didnt do" I dont want to regret not telling them, i cant go back and let them join in to this day later, it wont ever happen again.
On the other hand, i dont want there opinion or thoughts, and i dont want anything but thats cool and i dont want jelousy's flairing for not being able to go with us.
Honestly i dont think they will be jelous.
I would like them to share in the day with us even if it is just by skype, or cell phone, and figuring out the logistics of that without them knowing before hand seems to be harder than i thought.
IF i tell them, i can tell the family, and maybe send out some kind of think of us at this time on this day, or even send out Balloons to my friends to release on a certain time.. which is what we plan to do at the ceremony, and was going to leave a box for the kids to open with balloons that morning anyway.
UGGHHHH.......