What's "BTDT"?
Perhaps, but this was not op's first trip. It was her second, her first was in March. Much of what she says is simply problematic for me.
I understand that a new guest isn't going to understand all the ways to get about WDW, and there I am sympathetic. Even after many visits, we sometimes make mistakes. But her attitude, language and expectaions seem inappropriate to me; I have no sympathy for her sense of entitlement or her defensiveness. Simply put, you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. She's more vinegar than honey.
She says, "It wasn't a 'dead' day at the park, in fact lines for most rides were over 20 minutes, some, like Kali in excess of 40." It's a popular theme park. Twenty and forty minute posted wait times ARE comparatively short waits for attractions. You don't have to be a WDW expert to know that. I honestly find it difficult to see that anyone is inexperienced enough to think that they won't have to wait in any lines over ten minutes. (her expectation - see post #33) In my life there are lines for everything: fast food, bathrooms, coffee counters. That's just how life is.
She adds in her second post, "Whether 40 minutes seems long or short to others isn't particularly the issue. We chose this week specifically to take advantage of smaller crowds and by extension, shorter lines. "
These two sentences together are just wrong on so many levels. The second sentence is irrelevant. Further why did she think THIS week was a very slow one?
If she had the second expectiaon, then she should've had enough info to know the 40 IS a comparatively short wait for a popular attraction queue at noon in the summer.
She only checked at TWO times: morning and around noon. There was an 11:30 showing of Birds of Wonder next door to Kali that finished up yesterday at 11:55. If she went at noon following the show, she was entering the queue at the same times as the FoW crowd.
She uses language like "crap" and "feces" to describe her frustration.
BTDT - Been there, done that.
Sorry, I thought it was her 1st trip. Thanks for the clarification.
I agree with a lot of what you say, and I don't agree with her language, but again, if you've been there multiple times, then it's easier to understand how to do Disney.
The fact that she thinks waiting 20 or 40 mins is a long time, when it is not, especially during the summer, is a matter of expecatations. That is why I mentioned that. I think she had very high expectations of how slow the park would be. When it didn't fit that bill, she got upset. The fact that she has a young child in the heat, probably didn't help either. But again, you are right about checking the attractions throughout the day, but her point is that this wouldn't be necessary if FP was working, as she could get her FP, go and do something else, and then return to complete Kali. Instead, she got held up with waiting. I think it's impatience and high expectations at work here, and this has nothing to do with taking Disney's side at all. This has to do with what do guests do when they are hit with snags? How does a guest react when there is a line or a malfunction of some sort? It speaks to having alternate plans available. Some people are good at this, others, not so much...
I do agree with much of what you say, and I really believe a lot of the issue is her expectation of the parks this week. I am hoping that she had a better day today. We have been at the parks during the most insane busy times, only to find broken attractions, closed Fastpass machines and inoperable monorails. We just kept trucking along, but again, we are
DVC members who go very often, and so we have a different outlook on how to vacation at Disney.
I've already commented on the Fastpasses as well - Disney doesn't have to operate them, as it's a perk that they utilize when they feel it's necessary. Nothing any of us can do about that, as that is how they run the show. I remember the days before FPs, as I'm sure many others do too, and doing Disney now, is vastly different with the addition of FPs. It is great to have them, but they are not a given at anytime.
Thanks for the discussion, Tiger
