First let me say that I don't hate the WDW version. I think its pretty good but not as good as DL's. Like you said everyone has their own opinion on things. With the actual ships and the new Dragon it really blows me away.
It really shocks me that you think Wishes is better than Remember Dreams Come True? Did you see Magical or Remember Dreams Come True when you were at
Disneyland? Most that have seen RDCT think its by far the best fireworks show ever done. How can it not be when you incorporate Walt Disney into the show and his dream of building a park for his children?

Plus having Julie Andrews narrate is magical.
I do agree with you that Spectromagic is better than MSEP. MSEP will always hold a special place in my families heart as that was our first nighttime Disney parade we saw at the Magic Kingdom at WDW back in 1990. I love the music in Spectromagic and the floats.
Anyways to all that are reading this DL's Fantasmic! is a must see even if you've seen WDW's version. DL's version is also the original.