Ruined? No but if you are regularly getting Palo brunch after PIF I tip my hat to you. If you are getting it upon boarding? That is a Pearl perk due to the group 2 boarding that not everyone has access to and you should assume those new cruisers will not be as lucky especially if they cannot afford to pay for
DCL transportation.
You sail often- Not everyone does. Royal tea, BBB, Palo Brunch, Jost Van Dyke excursions, The Bath Excursions, Glacier Excursion, all do sell out and sell out well before sailing and so it feels like a bigger deal to those who only sail 3-4 years (if that) vs someone who cruises often.