TwoMisfits
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So, in a U-turn, my daughter is now thinking a "new" 2+2, b/c she has a large desire in music, and realized her #1 school's program won't even let you get a minor in it (which is what she wants - to get a minor and perform in a choir) without jumping through 100 hoops, while the CC will let you take what you like and improve the skills you want and be in the choirs/ensembles you want. There is a program that makes you a student of both on day 1, while taking your 1st 60 credits at CC (and she'd have time to get a bunch of music lessons/classes b/c we already have 18 of the 60 credits to send over, but you usually do 2 full years)...but being able to be in clubs/gyms/sports/cultural events, etc of the main school all 4 years...
We'd save over 30% of the full 4 year tuition we are looking at...and apparently 3K kids/year transfer from the CC to the #1 school as juniors (thus, this "new" program which started in 2018), so she wouldn't even be "odd" when she transferred...hmmmm...
I'm having trouble with the mental block of a perfect grades kid with National Merit Commendation and significant merit scholarships at 2 schools and honors at all 3, dumping it all for a 2+2, where we wouldn't have even had to do a college application. But, then, I tell myself how much of a sucker am I if I do pay full freight and fully drain the 529, which could be used for the eventual masters needed in her program. All for "core class" stuff with little utility to my kid. But then again, the main school isn't THAT expensive to start with...but then again, why even pay that much when it's not needed for nothing gained?
My kid is not having this block
...she is all about no debt...so, we are gonna sit down with the advisors for this...
I do know my 2nd kid already is on board doing this, and since she won't be National Merit, I'm on board, too
...it's just the 1st was such a high scholastic achiever, I'm struggling with the feeling of selling her short (which she herself doesn't have)...but, then I'm also struggling with sending her to a school where she's guaranteed to not work on her desired music skills, so why am I paying that much...
We'd save over 30% of the full 4 year tuition we are looking at...and apparently 3K kids/year transfer from the CC to the #1 school as juniors (thus, this "new" program which started in 2018), so she wouldn't even be "odd" when she transferred...hmmmm...
I'm having trouble with the mental block of a perfect grades kid with National Merit Commendation and significant merit scholarships at 2 schools and honors at all 3, dumping it all for a 2+2, where we wouldn't have even had to do a college application. But, then, I tell myself how much of a sucker am I if I do pay full freight and fully drain the 529, which could be used for the eventual masters needed in her program. All for "core class" stuff with little utility to my kid. But then again, the main school isn't THAT expensive to start with...but then again, why even pay that much when it's not needed for nothing gained?
My kid is not having this block

I do know my 2nd kid already is on board doing this, and since she won't be National Merit, I'm on board, too
