Ex-Hubby's Girlfriend bruises my DD ? Long

[lisajl]

Whatever you choose to do, be sure to let someone in authority know. It is best to document these things. Sure, it might be a one time thing, but what if it is not?

My DH niece was molested by her step brother when she was 5, he was 13. I did not learn of this until my DD was born. I had never met the boy, and I asked my inlaws "Is this kid still alive?"

They said of course, and he has gotten help. His help consisted of one therapy session. While DN got three and that is it.

Needless to say, I never left my DD alone with that boy around.


Protect your child...that is what parents do best (at least the ones that care about their kids). I hope you can get things worked out with your ex about this terrible situation.

Lisa

 

[rae519]

Originally posted by ***********
I would grab the GF by the throat, push her up against the wall, get nose to nose and calmly explain the horrible manner in which she would die if she ever hurt my child again.

But that's just me.

I want to be on your team, girlfriend!
Maybe we could be "enforcers"!!!


As "damo" said, "Girlfriends come and go, children do not"!

Whether Daddy wants to be in the picture or not, it's the GF that needs to get the warning that this behavior will not be tolerated and legal action will be taken if it happens again.

Rae

 

[Mom2Em]

I have to join Laura... If anyone EVER leaves a mark on DD out of anger, it would not be pretty...

the logical side of me says, photo, document and talk to someone who handles these kinds of issues...

 

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