Everybody says I'm crazy!

[MeganFyne]

Ok not EVERYBODY. But most people, upon learning that I am going to Disney Solo (before my, now, well rehearsed explanation) think that I'm out of my mind. Or my favorite - that I just "couldn't find someone to go with me."

Why do people feel that going to Disney solo means you are a social pariah? I have never been so excited about something, even proud! Has anyone else experienced this reaction?

 

[kerplop]

I told one of my co-workers that DP and I were going to WDW and her reaction was, "but you don't have any kids!". Really? I had no idea! But honestly I think you do what makes you happy and ignore all the naysayers. Some people can't imagine going anywhere alone and some of my best times have been when I went on my own to places!

 

[mjperry]

I love going to WDW and have been solo, I rather go alone then with people who don't want to go. Going solo is different but it's also more relaxing in ways.
I'm a Disney geek so if it's takes a solo trip so be it.

 

[quirkygal]

Ok not EVERYBODY. But most people, upon learning that I am going to Disney Solo (before my, now, well rehearsed explanation) think that I'm out of my mind. Or my favorite - that I just "couldn't find someone to go with me."

Why do people feel that going to Disney solo means you are a social pariah? I have never been so excited about something, even proud! Has anyone else experienced this reaction?

This is my first trip as an adult - I had a one day trip to the MK when I was 8 - and I'm getting alot of the "you're crazy" too Yes I'm crazy but that has nothing to do with going solo to WDW

Our office assistant has made this something of a campaign -

*Did you know it's really hot at the end of August in Orlando? What are you going to do by yourself in all that heat?

--No, really it's hot in Florida??? I had no clue. As for what I'll do by myself in all that heat probably the same thing I'd do if I weren't by myself ... well unless Prince Charming gets out of my dreams and into my (ride) car

*Don't you have any friends?

--Ummmm, yes. (Picture blank stare ala and your point is?).

*Well then you should go with them.

--But they're my friends and I like them. Why would I subject those I care about to me early in the morning, late at night, with sore feet, or my obsession with finding the perfect touring plan? Now folks who annoy me - bring it on... hey what are you doing at the end of August? (OK, I didn't really say that last part but I wanted to).

*It's dangerous in the world for a woman on her own.

--I've lived in very large east coast cities - and many a bad neighborhood - by myself since I was 19. N-E-X-T

*You should go with some kids.

--I thought the point of a vacation was to enjoy yourself.

*Why don't you wait until you have your own kids?

--Oh that's so sweet that you think I'm *that* young. Lots of water, sun avoidance, and moisturizer make a big difference, huh?

*Aren't you going to be lonely?

--Nope, I like peace and quiet ... hint, hint.

You get the idea...

I've just learned to tune her out and the other nay sayers. They're either jealous or too scared to do things on their own.

 

[tsukata]

I'm married, but I went to WDW on my own. It was awesome. I got lots of things done, rode *only* my favorite rides, and I got to do some things that my DH wouldn't enjoy (like Restaurant Marrakesh). Having done other resorts and trips on my own, I think WDW was one of the best. It's incredibly safe. It's quiet. There's plenty to do. There's restaurants, activities, and bars where you can meet people easily.

And best of all, there's bus and other transit so you can get as tipsy as you like and still have a safe ride home!

 

[KeroKero]

Congrats to you on touring the World solo. I've often thought about doing this myself, and I know I will get to do it soon enough (hopefully my next trip, and leave DH home alone to fend for himself).

I think its something that would be relaxing, being able to navigate the parks at my own pace, enjoying a quiet dinner alone at a nice place or two or three, and maybe finally getting time to check out some of Disney's spa facilities.

Don't listen to other people .... being solo, travelling solo takes something that most people just don't get!

 

[Birdman1511]

I love going solo! And theres nothing wrong with it at all. and dont let anybody tell you different. sure, everybody is opinionated, but thats what makes us all different and unique. As the PP said, congrats to you!! Hope you have a blast

 

[ludari]

I always get the same reaction. I'm a season pass holder and I go to DL about every other week and my family and friends give me a hard time about going solo all the time. I've gotten used to it but I try to refrain from sharing my excitement about going and keep my trips to myself. To me I'm just doing what I love regardless if I'm alone or with someone.

 

[flyslyw]

Ok not EVERYBODY. But most people, upon learning that I am going to Disney Solo (before my, now, well rehearsed explanation) think that I'm out of my mind. Or my favorite - that I just "couldn't find someone to go with me."

Why do people feel that going to Disney solo means you are a social pariah? I have never been so excited about something, even proud! Has anyone else experienced this reaction?

Yes! I'm having to go through this same thing! My first solo trip to the world is getting close and still the only reaction I get from people is "You're going alone? Um....that's strange." It's like they assume I'm some anti-social weirdo because I'm doing something different, and this is my family and friends I'm talkin' about .

I'm to the point now where I really don't care what anyone else thinks, I KNOW I'm gonna have a great time , but it's become a lot easier just to avoid even bringing up the subject and not having to deal with those headaches.

 

[tellemarie]

Before I took my first solo trip i got those reactions a LOT. Even here on the board one person replied to my PTR with something along the lines of "Wow I could never do that, can't you find anyone to go with you?" Personally I am not going to wait for someone to come along to enable me to do the things I want! I am young and (personally) seem to prefer being on my own right now! No one to tell me what to do, whine that they don't want to go here, or keep me in the parks when I want to go rest. It's the best of both worlds: doing what I want, and being in the world!

I'm buying an AP in the next few weeks (!!!!!!!!!!!) because I have quite a few trips back coming up and I've gotten really weird looks, "Wow you think you'll go that much on your own?" UM YES! I would be there everyday if I could

And when people say "Why Disney??" (especially on your own) I just retort with "Why Vegas??"

 

[tellemarie]

*It's dangerous in the world for a woman on her own.

--I've lived in very large east coast cities - and many a bad neighborhood - by myself since I was 19. N-E-X-T

*You should go with some kids.

--I thought the point of a vacation was to enjoy yourself.

HAH! "It's dangerous for a woman on her own!" This just made me think about some Damsel in Distress, which we fine Disney Women are not!

 

[StrawberryTink]

This is my first trip as an adult - I had a one day trip to the MK when I was 8 - and I'm getting alot of the "you're crazy" too Yes I'm crazy but that has nothing to do with going solo to WDW

Our office assistant has made this something of a campaign -

*Did you know it's really hot at the end of August in Orlando? What are you going to do by yourself in all that heat?

--No, really it's hot in Florida??? I had no clue. As for what I'll do by myself in all that heat probably the same thing I'd do if I weren't by myself ... well unless Prince Charming gets out of my dreams and into my (ride) car

*Don't you have any friends?

--Ummmm, yes. (Picture blank stare ala and your point is?).

*Well then you should go with them.

--But they're my friends and I like them. Why would I subject those I care about to me early in the morning, late at night, with sore feet, or my obsession with finding the perfect touring plan? Now folks who annoy me - bring it on... hey what are you doing at the end of August? (OK, I didn't really say that last part but I wanted to).

*It's dangerous in the world for a woman on her own.

--I've lived in very large east coast cities - and many a bad neighborhood - by myself since I was 19. N-E-X-T

*You should go with some kids.

--I thought the point of a vacation was to enjoy yourself.

*Why don't you wait until you have your own kids?

--Oh that's so sweet that you think I'm *that* young. Lots of water, sun avoidance, and moisturizer make a big difference, huh?

*Aren't you going to be lonely?

--Nope, I like peace and quiet ... hint, hint.

You get the idea...

I've just learned to tune her out and the other nay sayers. They're either jealous or too scared to do things on their own.

Wowsa, you should make you office assistant photo copy alot of stuff. And make way more coffee than im already sure they make.. I didnt realise people were this ignorant. And i must say i cant imagine anything worse than taking children to Disney. I dont hate kids, but i couldnt be bothered with the hassle, its enough trying to organise the DH nevermind a group of kids. I think the only people who think going solo is weird are people who cant stand their own company. Personality like a dry fish!!

Roll on your vacation and have an awesome time!!!

I sure cant wait for mine!!!!!

 

[com_op_2000]

What I tell people is:
Whoever pays the piper calls the music.

If your friends/co-workers wants you to go on a vacation and they are willing to pay for it, go and have a great time on them. If you are paying for the trip you go where and when you choose to go.

The first year EPCOT was open, I got an AP, I knew I would be the local escort for out-of-state visits by family memebers. I went that 1st year 13 times by myself.

 

[quirkygal]

HAH! "It's dangerous for a woman on her own!" This just made me think about some Damsel in Distress, which we fine Disney Women are not!

No Penelope Pitstops here !

(for those who need a cartoon intro refresher: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymlGyVMNZUI )

Wowsa, you should make you office assistant photo copy alot of stuff. And make way more coffee than im already sure they make.. I didnt realise people were this ignorant.

LOL - In her own way she's trying to be helpful.

And I used to be an assistant so I know that lots of hours at the copy machine usually means booking the bosses' calendars with back to back conference calls with their least favorite people. Not that I ever stooped to such tactics - - just something I've seen others do. Yeppers - that's my story and I'm sticking to it

 

[Mokat76]

I did a solo trip last year and had the BEST time. As one PP said, I got to try things no one else wanted to. I splurged on the deluxe dining plan and had some awesome meals. Did MVMCP, too. Fun to the max. I got the incredulous looks at home but didn't care. I was more worried about feeling out of place in the world but that didn't happen.

Really? People still use the "dangerous world" line? Did she think you were heading fou the new Disneyworld Kabul?

Go. Have fun. You'll love it. I promise.

 

[quirkygal]

Really? People still use the "dangerous world" line? Did she think you were heading fou the new Disneyworld Kabul?

Yep my coworker and I were like, "what are you 195?" Yes, great great great great grandma its a dangerous world

 

[Glendamax]

Ok not EVERYBODY. But most people, upon learning that I am going to Disney Solo (before my, now, well rehearsed explanation) think that I'm out of my mind. Or my favorite - that I just "couldn't find someone to go with me."

Why do people feel that going to Disney solo means you are a social pariah? I have never been so excited about something, even proud! Has anyone else experienced this reaction?

Yes, I have! People think that there really is something wrong with me - that I'm a little "off". I've even been called a "loner". I think it's waaay crazier to stay home because I can't find someone who wants to go with me!

I've even had people ask me - in a voice you would use to a Toddler - "Do you think you would like to go any where else besides Disney World"? As if that's the ONLY place I go. Come on folks...

I think people tend to place their fears on me. THEY couldn't do it so how could I? So welcome to the club! There are LOTS of crazy people here!

 

[reindeer]

planning my first solo trip for March, Flower and Garden Festival.Looking forward to taking tons of pictures and not slowing others down while I'm doing it. Get tired of snapping pics quickly cause we have to hurry to the next ride. I get a few comments and strange looks when I tell people but I don't care, this is what makes me happy. Love sharing the Disney experience with others but somtimes you need "me" time.

 

[miralys]

I get that reaction from time to time. Just like I get the same reaction when I mention I am going to a nice restaurant by myself or to see a movie by myself. They just don't seem to get that I like to be by myself for a time so I can unwind. It's nice to go someplace and have only your own agenda and feelings to consider.

 

[Oleeka]

I guess I've been lucky, but everyone I know says they envy me! They even list all the things that would be nice about visiting Disney solo. Of course, they already know I'm a friendly loner (I can talk to anyone, I just don't want to take them home), so maybe that makes the difference.