Ever date 2 people at the same time?

[monkeyboy]

Neither that serious but how do you handle it?

 

[Robinrs]

Why just TWO?

 

[monkeyboy]

Why just TWO?

As Toby would say "Not as young as I once was"

 

[Michelle67]

Well well. Now I guess we know where you've been.

 

[DisneyScraps]

in my 20's I dated 3 at the same time and 2 of them had the same name. It got to be quite tricky! I never cheated, it was one of those situations where they did not want to be exclusive.

It was a lot of fun. I was open with them that I was dating other guys.

 

[CurlyGirl]

Yes. Good scheduling and organizational skills are helpful!

 

[DebIreland]

Simple. Get a king size bed.

 

[kellyg403]

Sure...but I learned the hard way to make sure everyone is on the same page. It really bites when someone decides to be your 'one and only' and you are not interested!


Kelly

 

[Robinrs]

1. Discretion - with everyone

2. Give them nicknames so you want call them the wrong name

3. Turn off your cellphone when with one.

4. Remember their schedules

5. NEVER let them know.

 

[The Mystery Machine]

Yes, but it was before cell phones and the internet. I was dating whoever I wanted.

 

[kellyg403]

1. Discretion - with everyone

2. Give them nicknames so you want call them the wrong name

3. Turn off your cellphone when with one.

4. Remember their schedules

5. NEVER let them know.

Oh yeah, I had a fake name and phone number...you just never know. And like Mystery said...before cells there was only your house phone, you were home or you weren't!

Kelly

 

[dancin'girl]

Back in college, I was seeing two different guys for a while. Things were going really well with guy #2 and he asked me to stop seeing guy #1. I really liked him, so I ditched the other guy. We've been married for 10 years now.

 

[Squirlz]

First off, never let any one of them think they are the ONLY one. Nothing good can come from that.

 

[Lassie Lynne]

If you buy gifts, always buy two of the same, that way, you will always remember what you get them .

 

[marcemc]

I was romantically clumsy in those situations

 

[laurie31]

Well, I haven't, but if you've noticed my tag, my college roommate certainly did.

Yes, there really were 17 of them, and no, none of them knew about the others, although she never led any of them to believe she was dating them exclusively.

Three of them were named "Mike" and two were named "Dave."

That made for loads of fun when one would call, and of course she was never there, because she was out with one of them, and they would just say, "Tell her Mike called," and I dared not ask, "Which one?" and then when I gave her the message, she didn't know who to call back.

She often had a lunch date with one and a dinner date with another. She would come in and shower and change clothes between dates so one didn't smell the other's cologne on her clothes.

I was in awe of her social prowess. I have no idea how she juggled that many, plus college courses, but she did.

 

[Gisele]

Yes, twins.

 

[indimom]

I've never been good at multi-tasking.

 

[Gisele]

Thats a good one.... funny! I like that. Sometimes I believe that it might be best to just hire an escort. I might just do that for my birthday next year. Ah.... what a special treat that hopefully would be.

 

[erincon23]

Dated two guys with the same name for a while. Guy 1 wasn't interested in being exclusive, but I was head over heels for him. Guy 2 was a really nice guy who expressed interest in marrying me, but since I was hung up on guy 1, I never really gave him a chance. They both knew about each other, but never met. Guy 2 didn't last long -- he met someone else, and I encouraged him to go that direction. They got married a year later. I guess he was just ready.