As sad as it may sound, many people just do not KNOW the courtesy rules regarding elevators. If they were not taught as children by their parents (maybe they never went anywhere with elevators!), no one is likely to say anything to them as adults for "violating" the courtesy rules.
I make it a point to verbally instruct my children (2 and 5) while we are waiting for an elevator. I don't just do this once either, I do it almost ever time we use elevators. Children aren't born knowing how to behave!
For those who don't know and are too embarassed to ask, here's some general rules:
1. Let people get OFF the elevator before getting on. This one is key! Once on, step to the back and/or side. Do not hover near the front unless you are getting off at the next floor or the elevator is full.
2. If you are the first to enter an elevator, push your floor button and either step away from the buttons, allowing the next person to push theirs, or better yet, politely ask what floor they need and push it yourself. If you find yourself by the button panel, as on a crowded elevator, continue to ask each person who gets on for their floor number.
3. If the elevator is obviously full, do not squeeze in. Either wait for the next elevator or take the stairs, if you are physically able.
4. If someone needs to get on an elevator with a wheelchair or stroller, let them on first. It is much easier for YOU to step on the elevator and get around the wheelchair or stroller than it is for the wheelchair or stroller to navigate around you. Even if you are already ON the elevator, it would be nice to step out and hold the door for someone in a wheelchair and then step back in.
Does anyone have any others? I'm willing to learn!
Peggy