I've been admonished by bus drivers for taking my ECV through a normal bus queue rather than going up to the handicapped loading area. One guy said something like "You make your life harder and my life harder, if other people don't like how we do things they can rent a car."
I've also had the experience of waiting for the next bus and finding that the next bus has a broken ramp, and then the next one after that was one of the old ones with the high-up lift that I just don't feel safe using. I think I finally got on the fourth bus that day. And I still got dirty looks from people in the bus line even though I'd been there much longer than any of them, which sort of triggered the realization that it was going to happen anyway, so why worry about it.
And this is where Disney is at fault. If they are going to accommodate physically challenged guests, they need to do it consistently. That should never happen to you...it's just plain wrong.
The issue is not
scooter users, nor is it non-scooter users.
The problem is that nobody wants to wait for a bus. If Disney doesn't want unhappy snowmen, then they should provide better transportation options. Waiting more than ten minutes for a bus to show- any guest - is really unacceptable. Except I do have to credit Disney for moving a tremendous amount of people each day. Still, the system could be vastly improved.
Truly, I've been to WDW with large groups, and it is much harder to travel in a group of twelve than a group of four. Even with ADR's, parties of twelve wait a VERY long time to dine: normally 20-60minutes past our ADR! Small groups get to pass large groups all day long. My point is not to pit large parties against small ones...my point is that Disney's busing system needs improvement.
The WDW transportation system is flawed, not the guests.
The best we can do, is try to be civil to each other. Here on the DIS, and at WDW. We'd do well to play it forward and share each other's joy. Relish the little girl whose laughing with grandpa...it might just be their last visit together.
I have to disagree...the transportation system isn't flawed. It is mass transit, and anyone that lives close to a large city, and has used their mass transit system, will have no issue with how Disney runs it's system. But, it seems that people want a bus within 5 mins of their arrival at the bus stop. But, they don't want to pay the increased room rates! And believe me, that's what will happen if the buses have to double...more equipment, more drivers, more fuel. Someone has to pay for that. I would much rather decide that I don't mind waiting up to 20 mins for a bus vs renting a car and having immediate access. If speed is going to be important to me, I'll rent that car.
But, you're absolutely right...we all need to be polite and friendly. I have had some of the most wonderful interactions with other guests when using the buses!!!
And I have seen them separated by the bus driver and in ride lines. I have gotten on rides before another party with a scooter because we only had 4 people, and she was waiting for the rest of her party to get to the front of the line (she had 8 people and two of them were told they had to go through the regular line the rest of the way instead of with her.) Enforcement isn't standard, and it should be, but that is no excuse for the abuse that people who aren't breaking the rules from people who think that they are better, more important, have more feelings, etc than people who have mobility issues. I would LOVE to be able to wait in line. I was thrilled when Haunted Mansion mainstreamed the line and I could play too. I would LOVE to be able to run with my daughter. I would be ecstatic to be able to climb the Swiss family treehouse or do Tom Sawyer's island. I would trade you my "advantages" any day.
I am concerned about our next trip. There will be 7 of us, so I expect that my daughter and son in law, or my best friends will be separated from me on the bus and in ride lines, something able bodied groups don't have to worry about. I will probably have to keep my friends with me, because they have never been to disney, and lose time with my daughter and son in law. Since I only see them once or twice a year, I guess shouldn't regret the time I won't get to spend with them. We will separate, that is the rules, but that doesn't mean I have to be happy about it.
I, also, wish you could run with your daughter, and hike up Swiss Family Robinson's Treehouse! I truly do. But, sometimes life just plain sucks. But you have to understand that equal is equal...not better. So, surely you can understand the feelings of other guests that have been waiting for 20+ mins, in the heat, for a bus, when an ECV comes rolling up just as the bus arrives....and that back door opens and you hop on along with your large family group. So now...those that have been waiting could possibly have another wait because so many seats were taken up by your group. And understand, I use the 'you,your' very generally...not you specifically. If I see someone on an ECV roll up, with a group, I am thrilled when they follow Disney's recommendation of having only 6 of their group board. But, it doesn't happen often...and that's my issue. All things being equal, I suppose only the person using the ECV is 'technically' entitled to use the 'first one to board'...everyone else in the party is able. BUT....that hardly seems fair either.
I was at WDW just over a month ago and used an
ECV rented from an offsite vendor. Luckily, we're only a family of 3.
I understand and agree with the loading/unloading rules. However, personally, I hated the thought of passing up a long line of hot and tired people. It just didn't feel fair to me.
So this is what I did. If there was an existing line at the bus stop more than 15-20 people, I would hang back and not pull up to the loading area. I gave my family the choice of hanging back with me or getting in line for the bus and going on without me. Most times they hung back with me, but a few times at the end of a long day, they headed back to room without me.
I'm not saying my way is the right way. For me, it just felt like the fair thing to do.
That was incredibly nice of you. I have to wonder if those guests waiting in the line realized exactly how nice it was.
Actually, that is exactly what was said--the person in the the ECV should load on the bus with only one family member if they need the help, and everyone else should wait in the line, including children as long as there is an adult that isn't using an ECV to wait with them.
Yep, it was me that said it! And as I said before equal means equal, not better. The person with the health issue gets to board the bus early, those not challenged get to be in the line with other non-challenged people. BUT...that is never going to happen. And when I said it, it was because of all the abuse of the system I've seen. Believe me, there are plenty of people that abuse the system. I have overheard many, many guests saying as they were seated on the bus with someone using an ECV..'Wow, that really works. We're going to have to get an ECV every time...it's worth the money!' Or some variation of that statement. And that makes it very hard for those that truly need the ECV, and early boarding. Other people hear this stuff and it really angers them.....they are playing by the rules, while others are not. So those who are entitled to ECV use, and all that goes with it, are tarred and feathered with that same brush. And I'm sorry about that. But you have to understand where some of our feelings come from. We completely understand where you are coming from....please try to understand us.
The
ECVs are hard to maneuver in the counter service areas--the guy definitely should have had a family member guiding him through so he didn't hit your daughter's chair--they could have easily asked you to let them through. If he did hit, he should have apologized. Thankfully, the only people I have hit have been my husband and daughter because they both step right in front of me thinking they are going to help!
With the reaction you got, I have to wonder how many of the ECV hate club the family had run into that day to overreact that way. I'm sorry it happened to you when you weren't doing or saying anything to them.
And again, as I said either in this thread, or another one like it, I have spent the evening in Epcot with a good friend who routinely uses an ECV...she is very expert. But I was astounded to see how invisible we got. It was truly eye opening. I now really try to give those on an ECV the benefit of the doubt.
That kind of thing should never happen. Yes, accidents happen, but if someone runs into another person, a heartfelt apology would be nice. And that goes for stroller people as well...or just someone walking along, not watching where they are going.