LIFERBABE said:
And I I am on these boards several times a day, even when at Disney, Im on these boards (I know its sad) and there was great instigation and lashing out at SSR and its members for taking away coveted ressies at the smaller DVC's.
Okay, this is where we are going to have to disagree....and, where I think the MAJOR disagreement among owners is. People say, "A lot of SSR owners are entering the system, booking other places, and resorts are getting harder to book inside the 7 month window." IMHO....that is NOT bashing!!! And, it is not blaming SSR owners, it is a complaint about how the system is set up. I don't think anyone can argue that since SSR has been selling, a LOT of new members have entered the system, and whenever anyone does a poll here on the dis regarding this issue...SSR owners overwhelmingly say they are wanting to "try" all resorts. I have seen many posts where SSR owners say, "We were going to stay at SSR, but figured we could stay there anytime...so, we decided to try for XXX if it is available." What happens next? Joe DVC calls MS at 6 months out (like he has always done in the past) to reserve his VWL, only to find it is full....for the first time ever. Seriously, renters have been around for a LONG time....SSR is new...so, it is probable that SSR has "tipped the scales" of balance. Also, SSR is selling in phase 3 now. That means that a resort the size of OKW has already been sold. That would be TWO BCV's, or three VWL's. Anyway you slice it....that is a lot of new people added to the system who want to "try all the resorts." To say that, if one says, "The addition of all the new members has made it harder for me to book a smaller resort inside the 7 month window is wrong"....IS WRONG! When people say this, they are not "bashing" SSR or its owners, they are expressing something they really believe.
And, maybe I wrong on this...I have always known "bashing" to be saying something in an exaggerated or untruthful, for the purpose of making something look bad. Like saying a girl is "friendly with the boys" when she actually is not...

. I do not think if someone says BCV hallways look worn, housekeeping is terrible, and there is trash all over the hallways...that they are bashing BCV....I believed they actually perceived it that way, and they have every right to post that. If someone said, "The theming of SSR is so bad...it smells like horse manure." Well yes...that would be bashing. It's obviously NOT true, and is just stated to make SSR look bad. So....we come to the "apartment complex" comment.

One person posted that here as an HONEST opinion. To them, SSR reminded them of an apartment complex....I don't think that was bashing. Then, another poster took it and kept repeating it...okay, THAT was bashing (but, that poster WANTED people to get mad, and he got banned for those comments). I do think paraphrasing someone else's statement to make them look bad is bashing them, as is name calling.
So...I know I am going to get flamed for this, but sometimes...I just have to post what I feel is honest. Here's some excerpts from pages 1-4 (I got tired after that) of the thread Sammie linked to above. Note: A few disclaimers...I really tried to be fair on this one...I was looking for "bashing" and "blaming" on both sides. Also, I think some of the REAL bashing got removed as posters got banned. But, here's some of the things I read.
What other resort owners said about SSR:
1) "I told the castmember it must be all the SSR people booking at the 7month window, and she gave me some BS about how it's the F&W Festival, yada yada yada. Yea, I know, but this is the first time in five years that I've had a problem booking VWL or BCV at the 7month window. Oh well, live and learn."
(this was post #1, and the only negative thing about SSR I could see thru post #4, where a mod responded, SSR bashing is unproductive, and frankly, tiresome.)
2) Then, an SSR defender said, to the OP: Wow! What will all the VWL and BCV owner's do now their resort is full in October? Surely not book into SSR and take away booking opportunities for SSR owners. No, surely not!
Well, I guess if they would sink that low, Halloween is in October, maybe they could wear a costume and mask so no one will recognize them as they go slumming. (Implying that other owners called SSR a "slum"...I couldn't find it anywhere in the thread.)
To which, the OP responded: Gee, I guess I should feel honored that your first post after joining in May 2004 is in response to my thread. No one feels staying at SSR is slumming. You people take things too personally. It is a matter of preference and taste. I personally do not like the BWV, just stayed there a few weeks ago, and am staying again the first week of June and am trying to switch resorts for that one. I will just have to be disciplined enough to book my reservation at the 11 month window when I want to stay at VWL or BCV. I know I'll have no problem booking SSR at 7 months, so I don't have to worry about that one. (Yep, her own little "dig" there)
What SSR owners said about/to other owners:
1) Personally I would never stay at BW or BC to many snobs...
To which, a BWV owner responded, Hey!!!!!!!!! Be nice now.... It's not nice to make hasty generalizations. I don't think I'm a snob at all. I can't tell you how hard I have to work to pay for my tiny 180 pts. at the BW (something I've wanted for years but couldn't afford it (and yes, I wish I had enough $$$ to have bought a few more points).AND the reason why I chose to pay more to be where I wanted to be is because I fell in love with the BW area and I never cared for the DTD/PI area.) I don't think that would make me a snob. As long as I can book in my 11 mo period, I don't care whether you come in to BW or not. If I don't book on time, so what, I get to stay at SSR, OKW etc.... what a hardship to leave the NE to come down to Florida and have to stay at another resort (even though I'd prefer my own). (A SSR owner called BWV and BCV owners snobs, and still received a kind response...this is the only response to this comment that I saw on the pages I read).
2) "My cousin wants to stay at BC on our next trip they have their own points, for the first time we all decided to go as a familyI refuse to stay there for the simple reason as to I witnessed first hand how some of the people who stay there treat the CM and it is sad as the resort has a lot to offer but I would rather be in remote part of SSR or OKW then see someone bash a CM because there exact wants were not met
." (The implication I got from this is that some people who stay at BCV treat CM's badly when their requests are not met, and all people who stay at SSR do not...personally, I think the types of people who would give a CM grief probably exist at all resorts.

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3) My guess is that as people are being "forced" to stay in the evil SSR they will see that is a good place to stay and that it will become a desired place to stay
(Note: No non-SSR owner had used the words "Evil SSR"...unless it was in a deleted post.)
4) ITA. Since when has someones POOR planning on their part become SSR DVC owners fault! Actually, I have had enough. Some of these people are acting like 2 year olds in full blown temper tantrums.
So, from looking at these posts, I can see someone saying that people who stay at BWV and BCV are "snobs" who treat CM's badly, fee they are "slumming" when they have to stay at SSR, and act like 2yr olds when they don't get their way. I really tried to find an example of someone calling an SSR owner names, or attacking them personally....but, I couldn't find a single reference (except a "rolling eyes" emoticon). I am not saying SSR bashing has never gone on....but, the phrase "Pot, your kettle is calling!" keeps popping in my brain.
I guess the other part of the argument that I am not understanding is this. The people who feel SSR owners are being "blamed" are the same people who are more than willing to give all the blame to the "commercial renters". Yes, 18,000 points is a lot of points for one person to have. But, if the average person owns 200 points...that is equivalent to 90 members. I am willing to bet that if you added up the points owned by ALL commercial renters, the number of points is STILL very small when compared to the number of points owned by SSR members. Imagine how many points DVC must sell EVERY SINGLE day??!!!
And, if people like SSR as much as so many owners on here do....who's to say those renters are not taking BCV/VWL/BWV points and "morphing" them into SSR points? I am willing to bet that, if rentals on ebay had been analyzed a month ago, we would've seen just as many SSR rentals as anything else. The same people who are saying the availability problems of DVC are NOT caused by SSR, seem to be implying that "commercial renters" are not booking at SSR in the same quantity as they are booking at the other resorts. I don't understand. I actually think most commercial renters are probably "pre-booking" high demand dates at ALL resorts. The smaller resorts will certainly be affected by this more than the larger ones, but...as I stated earlier...in the past, people have still been able to get their home resort closer to their date of arrival than the currently can. If renters have been around for years (at least 3), and members are experiencing difficulty for the first time this year....couldn't it be that adding so many members to the system could be partially responsible for this? And, if so....why is saying so blaming members? I think it would be blaming DVC.
I know I have left a lot of posts out of that thread, and I didn't read the whole thing...so, I could be missing some stuff. I really recommend anyone interested to go read a few pages, and see what your take is.
Stating facts, opinions, and making conjectures on these boards is something we do ALL THE TIME....it's what these boards are made of. Positives and negatives of EACH resort get posted frequently. And, everyone is entitled to post their impressions of a resort (including how that resort might be affecting the system as a whole)...and, they don't deserve to be called "bashers" or "blamers" for posting such opinions.
But, then again.....that's just my opinion....take it for what it is worth.
Sorry for being so long (again!!!!)
Beca