Yes, agreed, but don't you tip those who do a service for you like your barber or hair stylist?
I totally agree with you.
I find it kind of obnoxious when people 'look down' on people who tip people who do not have to be tipped.
I like to tip housekeepers, wait staff, the person who cuts my hair, coffee shops, etc etc etc WHEN I feel like the person has indeed performed a very personal service or has gone above and beyond to provide a superior level of customer services.
My wife and I once tipped 100% of the cost of our bill because our service was so outstanding, and our waiter was so friendly, service focused, and very professional.
Do we do that often? YES we tip 20-30% more often than not. It's not because we have a ton of money to spare - it's because we REALLY enjoy doing it! People that work in the service industry aren't there to get rich, and for the most part that will never be rich working in the service industry, and a lot of service industry employees are transitional. College students, students trying to pay for school, young parents trying to make ends meet and people who just really enjoy what they do!
If they go out of their way for me - I am going to return the favor - it's only fair.
With that being said - we have left $0.00 tips before as well. More than once - if we do not feel like the individual made us a priority, and made sure to serve us fairly, and in a timely fashion, we will not tip.
For instance the last time we were at a local chain restaurant we waited over 20 minutes for refills, our order was incorrect, we didn't get plates with our appetizer, and we had to wait over 20 minutes for our check, and when it came it was incorrect, so we then had to wait another 10 minutes or it to be corrected. We were there for over 2.5 hour FOR LUNCH. We have never been so close to just getting up and walking out without even offering to pay the bill. The manager was aloof and couldn't have cared less.
So - we are fair - and very generous when deserved!