Hasil72
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- Apr 21, 2006
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Its still disappointing that a pediatrician has never heard of it. On the bright side...you may have taught him (?) something that may help another patient down the road.
Another thing I have learned is that not all school districts offer services for SID aloneMy son gets services for his SID because he also has Asperger's. Without the Asperger's dx he wouldnt be eligible for school provided OT.
We didn't learn that DS8 had SID until he was already 4 because our pediatrician didn't recognize it as a diagnosis. They kept telling me he was just being a boy, immature, out of shape, blah, blah, blah. So we called our local school child study team. Before they were even through the phone interview, they had a pretty good idea that it was SID. Strangely, he experiences both seeking and avoiding in most categories. He was later diagnosed w/ADHD, low tone from the developmental delays (another one the pediatrician missed), on the autism spectrum somewhere between Asperger's and PDD-NOS, and generalized anxiety disorder.
You may have to really push for a diagnosis. I know that each state has different regulations for determining if your son is eligible for services but before they made a laundry list of DS's "issues", we were able to classify him as OHI-Other health impaired because he had allergies in addition to the SID. Try any loophole you can find. DS has made such progress with OT. He can actually sleep through the night, think before he raises someting to his mouth, and wait until after school to take off his shoes and socks! Seems crazy, I know, but just wait and see.
Also, be prepared for a lot of explaining. We found that we have been in a constant defensive mode with people who haven't heard of, let alone understand SID. They think that in order to have a disability, you need to "look the part". We have so many people who have told us "he looks normal enough to me, you just need to be more strict" or do this or that and he'll be fine. To the point where my grandmother, who used to teach kindergarten, accused me of "abusing" my child when (after 3 years) we finally tried medication for the escalating ADHD/anxiety. I agree with the other posters to read any information you can get your hands on and don't be affraid to speak up and voice what you think is in your child's best interest.
Good luck!
